we never even had a relationship, really. she dumped coz there was no connection. i sort of tried to ignore her after we agreed to be friends. then i wrote her a pretty long letter explaining its still awkward for me to be friends and that i was really sad it didnt work between us. it was a 'closure' letter. her response was brief, saying she was busy, understands and agrees and good closure, be well. the next day we ran into each other. she was laughing saying my letter was funny. i wrote a couple of funny lines, but it seemed as though she doesnt recognize the depth. the following day i said hi to her, she said hi and looked away, i walked away just like saying hi to an acquaintance..sigh, i wrote this closure letter to move on but i still think of her...i think i fell for her already...i know what to do, but my feelings wont follow...HELP pls...
2006-12-02 16:19:55 · 3 answers · asked by vincent m 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Find another girl. And for future reference, don't put anything in writing like that. I used to think that sort of thing was a good idea, but that was before I got my PhD in Love-ology. None of this should bother you so much as to even think of writing a letter. Good luck with the next girl!
2006-12-02 16:24:21 · answer #1 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, it clearly wasnt a closer letter if you didnt close... sounds to me you wrote a last stitch effort please see my pain and love me letter, and unfortunalty, she didn reapond the same way..
write a REAL closer letter to yourself... move on..
2006-12-02 16:24:50 · answer #2 · answered by s p 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to walk away for good. she has already made it clear she is done.
2006-12-02 16:22:58 · answer #3 · answered by Mimi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋