Alrite to make it short and simple. I am a 20 year old man who have fallen in love with a 25 year old Malaysian woman who literally lives right next door to me. And I am the co-landlord of the house she is living in right now with three other people she didn't know until she moved into the house. I have talked to this woman before and I just feel this spark between us whenever we converse. One of the few conversations took place one night at her house, a week after she moved in, I came over and insisted on helping her clean up the kitchen like putting away the dishes and kitchen utensils because she still had a lot of stuff in the kitchen that belonged to her. So during the time I was helping her out, we were talking about each other. I got to know a little more about her and she got to know a little more about me. There were a few moments of flirtation going and she would giggle and smile back at me. Ever since that night, I constantly think about her. What should I do?
2006-12-02 16:13:17 · 14 answers · asked by WilC 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have called her out this Sunday morning at around 10 AM asking if she wanted to go out to lunch with me, but unfortunately she was out of the house at the time with her girlfriends so I lost my shot. And just recently, a couple of days ago, my roommates and I planned on going to Irvine to go eat dinner and catch a movie afterwards and I'd decided to call her up to see if she wanted to tag along. Sadly, she had other plans again and that was to go out on a date with her ex. The thing that irritates me the most is that that night in the kitchen where we talked she told me straight up she was trying to get out of a relationship with her ex which she hasn't been with for four months. Even though that night I found out she lied to me that night, I eventually forgiven her. Now I have the urge to call her all the time, but I don't want to call to the point where it seem I am obsess over her. So any suggestions on what I should do about this?
2006-12-02 16:19:24 · update #1
go for it. i mean you guys obviously got something going there, either that or you're in the friend zone
2006-12-02 16:17:38 · answer #1 · answered by anna c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Milfs make the best lovers. The older chicks are horny as hell and not so insecure and flaky as high school or college girls.
2006-12-03 00:24:15 · answer #2 · answered by alpha_trolls 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her out..what do you have to lose..its 5 years.not 15 or anything..take a breathe. man just dont go all nuts on her...girls tend to know 911..you know what mean.
2006-12-03 00:21:09 · answer #3 · answered by mgibson92804 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is saying to herself i know how to get free rent.She got you working for free, on the first night.
2006-12-03 00:21:59 · answer #4 · answered by siaosi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ask her out one day to the beach or something.. somewhere romantic girls are sucker for nice guys... or ask her how her romantic life is. Pretend to be interested but not that into it... girls like guys who are hard to get... that is just the way we are
2006-12-03 00:17:40 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, she should consider herself Lucky! What should you do? Keep making yourself available to her,flirt, she'll get the hint.
2006-12-03 00:17:38 · answer #6 · answered by doesitmatter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until she moves out; you're her landlord.
Business and personal life doesn't mixed.
2006-12-03 00:18:12 · answer #7 · answered by SweetBrunette 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
drop it dude, it was just a conversation between a d Uuhmmm man... and a women... just cuz she's nice, doesn't mean that she wants you... take it easy big boy,,, and chill....let nature take it's course....good luck
2006-12-03 00:18:32 · answer #8 · answered by Traynor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should ask her out or something, and maybe things will work out and u will be happy
2006-12-03 00:17:38 · answer #9 · answered by Ashley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her and tell how you feel. Age dosen't matter.
2006-12-03 00:15:57 · answer #10 · answered by applebottomerotic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋