I like a guy who shows A LOT of signs that he likes me back (I'm not positive though). He and I talk on the phone everyday. But he tells me about this girl he's having a longdistance relationship with. I think the girl is fake because what he tells me about her seems ridiculous. (He's 16, the girls 19 for example). I think he's making up a girl to make me jealous and like him, which is working like a charm. How do I find out if the girl is real or not and if he actually likes me or not? He won't show me any pictures, he won't show me emails.
2006-12-02 16:12:50 · 9 answers · asked by malibucat1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ignore his calls or don't call him for many weeks, don't talk to him period. If he starts to come over and ask why, he isn't pretending and cares for you. If he doesn't come over and ask why, he probably does have another girl up his sleeve so watch out.
2006-12-02 16:16:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't think guys played games like that - trying to make you jealous.
He may like you as a friend and as someone to chat to on the phone, but maybe not as a potential gf. Sorry.
Girls need to remember that guys generally don't think like girls do. So don't interpret his actions as you would a girls.
He doesn't have to show you proof of this girls existence.
If you were married to him or in a serious relationship, then he would have to do some proving.
If he REALLY was going to be your boyfriend, then he'd drop the phone and be on your door step, to be with you.
Being possessive and suspicious will, I'd imagine, be driving him away.
2006-12-03 00:24:17 · answer #2 · answered by lulu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you can get funny with him without him getting mad, pressure him, say you want to be friends with his "girl friend" and see what happens ... even tell him your trying to find her on the internet .... get his reaction, if it scared, you win ...
or
or
you could just ask him straight, is she fake? Do you want to seem cool pretending you have a girl friend? I don't think she'd approve of us being such good friends if she were real, you know?
see his reactions, but only if you know he won't get mad..
OR
OR
pour your heart out
tell him it's this "could be pretend but other wise far away" girl or you who is standing right there ..
you'll win him
GOOD LUCK
2006-12-03 00:18:44 · answer #3 · answered by RandomChickSam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay... think about why you want him anyway... if he makes up a girlfriend to make you jealous, that makes him a loser. If he has a real girlfriend that he likes enough to try to make it work long distance, he might not be considering you "girlfriend potential"... just my thoughts...
2006-12-03 00:17:16 · answer #4 · answered by F.J. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that sounds pretty fake to me...lol. why don't you just ask him out if you really like him? and if he says yes like RIGHT away, he was probably either dating a girl to make you jealous or she never even exsisted. but if he kind of hesitates and says he has a girlfriend...he probably really does. then, so it doesn't look like you made a fool of yourself, you can just say that you were "just kidding, DUH."
2006-12-03 00:20:05 · answer #5 · answered by sammie.leigh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes fake,I dunno how to prove it though,ask him if YOU can talk to her...he might just be sayin that cause he likes you or wants to repel you.but the girl is definitely fake.good luck!
BUT since your talkin on the phone with him that means he likes you,unless you always call him and the conversations are awkward.
2006-12-03 00:19:36 · answer #6 · answered by RandomGreed 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well ask one day to go on "group dates" that way you can meet her... Take another close guy friend of yours or just play his own game... See how he reacts to that and you will know
2006-12-03 00:19:27 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You flatter yourself. You're not that special.
2006-12-03 00:15:18 · answer #8 · answered by alpha_trolls 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
HE IS A LOSER, FORGET ABOUT IT, MOVE ON TO SOMEONE REAL
2006-12-03 00:17:52 · answer #9 · answered by ~*~ISABELLA~*~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋