i meet her in tution she and her frnd in fun called me her b/frnd but after some time i got serious .i really liked her .i proposed her 2 times she never said yes.not me she never says any 1 yes .i sent her 3 times gift but she never took it.she want to become air hostess .i am also smart and cool her frnds also say this .is their any way to make her mine .i really love her.
2006-12-02 16:10:48 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all, learn to write and spell and articulate your thoughts in a sophisticated and efficient manner to let her know that you're smart enough to be a good provider for her future family. Secondly, if she says no twice then just leave her alone. If she still wants to be friends then maybe you have a hope. Ask her honestly if you have a chance of dating her. You would have to be a glutton for punishment and a slave to romance if you continue to pursue a woman who has obviously rejected you. You're humiliating yourself. Now pick yourself up, dust yourself off and with dignity conduct yourself in a respectable fashion. Then maybe she will be attracted to you. Wait for her to come to you now, if she does. Move on!
2006-12-02 16:15:07 · answer #1 · answered by Cynthia W 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She wants to be an air hostess is the reply, in your own question.
She may be having very high hopes and may be, wants to marry,(if at all), a very smart business executive of an MNC who keeps travelling in planes. But as a friend and companion she may like your company for a few years. It is difficult for her to tell you so. So, the tactics she has adopted is the best, Usually girls of that nature behave like that. If you become a smart successful executive talking in fluent good english, with natural self confidence like Amitabh only has in all the film world, who never hurts anyone, in worst of situations, never makes fun of any stupid ignorant man, nor bows down like a cow. : then perhaps she may consider you but she will decide much later afer seing other guys in the plane. I have not found one good decent person so far!, in this world, though I have travelled in 3 european countries, US and Canada. All men are a sort of "silly". I mean they are more egoistic by nature and keep declaring about it.
Thats why the marriages fail. If the woman also has ego problem, the marriage will never work. Girls should be shy, giving,sacrificing and loving by nature for a long standing relationship. never selfish!
2006-12-03 00:22:17 · answer #2 · answered by Maliha S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't "make" anyone your's. They have to agree to give their love and attention to you. I would say the girl does not want to marry you at this point. Just be a good friend and be there when she needs you, In the meantime, look around for someone else to give your love to that will accept it and give you back what you need. Chasing after someone that does not return your affection is torture. Why hurt yourself in this way? Go out with someone who is attractive to you and feels attrated to you. Keep the other girl as a friend and move on with your life.
2006-12-03 00:17:04 · answer #3 · answered by graff_monster@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shes not that into you.
This could never be a 50/50 relationship cause your already at the disadvantage if she accepts your offers. You like her more than she likes you so that man you will be the giver in the relationship and when u realize that she is not giving back your gonna get angry but she has been the same all along its just that at a particular moment you realized she is not that into you.
2006-12-03 00:16:01 · answer #4 · answered by Ice Box 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT SOUND LIKE SHE REALY LOOK AT YOU AS A FRIEND AND
NOTHING MORE. DONT PUSH HER AWAY. YOU NEED TO
MOVE ON AND FIND SOMEONE THAT WILL LOVE YOU
NOT SOME ONE THAT HAS MADE IT CLEAR HOW SHE
FEEL. YOU HAVE ASK HER TWICE. SENT PRESENTS.
YOU NEED TO START GOING OUT AND FIND SOMEONE
THAT YOU CAN GET YOUR ATTENTION TO. OTHER WISE
THE ONLY PERSON THAT WILL BE HURT IN THE LONG
RUN IS YOU.
2006-12-03 00:15:48 · answer #5 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just make her feel jealous catch sum other gal.........or else 4get abt her their r many gals in city dnt became a devdas behind her...in future u will get better then her..
2006-12-03 00:52:35 · answer #6 · answered by sweetu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her go. This if anything has taught you that you can love. She has her own agenda and it doesn't seem to include you.
2006-12-03 00:14:57 · answer #7 · answered by digitalkitty98 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like the feeling isn't mutual.It rarely is. It isn't you it is her move on.Find someone else to love that loves you back.
2006-12-03 00:13:28 · answer #8 · answered by doesitmatter 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe just keep it as a friendship. you will probably find someone that is more suited to you in the near future anyway.
2006-12-03 00:13:33 · answer #9 · answered by babycakes 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Give her some time.
2006-12-03 00:14:38 · answer #10 · answered by americangurl92 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋