i have been hanging out with this girl but she never seems 2 notice me,she calls me every day but as a friend,im getting the picture im in the friend zone,how can i get her to like me back?? also she has a boy friend.what should i do?????
2006-12-02 16:06:32 · 21 answers · asked by Theo P 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dude, if she has a boyfriend, don't go there. Just be her friend. If you're a true friend and you want something with her, if she appreciates you as more than a friend, she will come around when it's time and she has broken up with her boyfriend -but only after. You don't want her if she cheats on her boyfriend because that is a red flag, and only a lustful thing that will not mean anything good for you because if she can do that to him she will surely do that to you too. Just be her friend and whatever happens, happens.
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2006-12-02 16:12:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Never despair. First of all, you really like her and you are close to her often and intensely. That must be nice to begin with, and if that's what it will be, than it's not all that bad. You want to be intimate with her, and that's where the difference is between you and the boyfriend. So you know what she likes and dislikes. Start working on that a little deeper, but prepare yourself for telling her how you feel if you want to change the situation. Only telling her at a right moment can make a difference.
warning: the way you two hang out now and have contact will change after you tell her. Either you get disappointed because she will turn you down and you may not be so happy anymore hanging out and stuff. Or she will get closer to you and something may come out of that. Please do not expect that to heppen any time soon.
If she has been with the other guy for a long time, and you can't wait anymore, talk to her, be patient and hope for the best. If they have not been together long, then try to point out some negative things about him to her, and, as a best friend, help her move into the right direction instead (which is you!)
Good luck in either case.
2006-12-03 00:22:28 · answer #2 · answered by workandvacation 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Act arrogant around her, and then she'll like you. Don't be kind to her because that's what her friends do. Are you her friend? No. Does she think she is better than you? Yes. Put her here place. Tease her, don't take her crap. Don't pretend to be interested when you are really not. Make fun of something about her that will put you above her. What are you an emotional toilet or a man? Tell here when she calls you unless it's really important that I have something better to do then listen to her crap. More politely of course. God boys, these days she a women not a goddess or a friend. Would you treat you friend that well? No if a guy called you everyday you would tell him to **** off unless it is important.
2006-12-03 00:18:53 · answer #3 · answered by daboss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Partner save yourself some heart aches. All the roses in China can never make a person love you. Loving someone is called many things. It is magical and mysterious. This is the beauty of it all. Brother when the both of you feel it, it like getting bit by a rattle snake. The moment is instant and a warm and fuzzy feeling come over you. It is worse than being hit by a thunder bolt. Be yourself and appreciate her femininity and friendship. You may be surprise what may develop.
2006-12-03 00:13:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She does like you. If a girl seems to be around alot--and certainly if she calls you--she likes you. Girls are usually happy and flattered if a guy makes the first move to show her he likes her. Be brave--ask her to go with you to a movie--maybe with some other friends. It's easy to make someone like you. Just be nice to them--but not overly(a turn-off). Do NOT ask her if she likes you. That's embarassing, even if she does, and could make her uncomfortable or nervous. Be cooly attentive.
You don't say how old you are, but another effective technique for all ages is having a trustworthy and confident friend ask a friend of hers whether she would go out with you. Good luck!
2006-12-03 00:22:52 · answer #5 · answered by roxyrose 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In cases like this caution is the word of the day. there's two questions you should consider: What if you tell her that you like her but she only wants you as a friend. Then what about the boyfriend? maybe he dont want to let her go. So before you do anything weight the pro and cons. You could lose a friend and then you could also have a black eye. Weigh this sisutation very carefully before you act.
2006-12-03 00:16:04 · answer #6 · answered by karen v 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that everything happens for a reason. It's great that you
are friends with her right now. Keep being yourself. Concentrate on your things that you have to do(chores, work and other stuff). There is a fine line between the friend thing and the boyfriend thing. Things in your life will naturally work out in a great way, when you are thinking about good things. Stay postive, smile a
lot and enjoy your life.
2006-12-03 00:57:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot escape the friend zone. You may as well quit trying. And she has a bf?! What were you thinking? You can't get her to like you if she has a bf. Good luck with the next one!
2006-12-03 00:10:05 · answer #8 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Watch... Just Friends with Ryan Reynolds and Amy Smart...No Day dates, you'll then become a totally inanimate object in her eyes like a brother or a....lamp.
2006-12-03 00:09:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get over her and like someone else because you are in the friend zone alrdy and that would be hard to get out especially when she has a boyfriend.
2006-12-03 00:08:14 · answer #10 · answered by Orange? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋