Well, I'm alittle bit concern, because I notice that alot of lesbains hit on me, I mean all the time, even friends of mine that I thought were straight, would end up hitting at me at some point, I even had one girl, who I thought was straight, ask me did I have a boyfriend? And I told her no, and then she said well I guess we'll be kissing, I was in total shock, but I'm just wondering, do you think it's something I 'm doing, I mean I'm a heterosexual female, I always talk about me, so anyone have a clue why this is happening?
2006-12-02 16:05:49 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe they're getting a vibe....
2006-12-02 16:08:30 · answer #1 · answered by F.J. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For some reason, you are showing up on "gay-dar."
It's possible that you will be bisexual or lesbian at some point in your future, maybe at menopause.
All you can do about it for now is to work on your acceptance and peace of mind in these situations.
Accept that you appear to be a lesbian, even when you're heterosexual.
Be prepared to be mistakenly thought to be a lesbian.
Work on your compassion and understanding.
This work will not be wasted. The results of it will benefit you in other areas of your life.
Don't worry. Allow unconditional love to displace any fear that's present.
You might want to ask a psychic to check to see if you are going to be bisexual or lesbian in this lifetime.
2006-12-02 16:17:05 · answer #2 · answered by E V 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I get it a lot too.. maybe we just give off a vibe.
One of my gay friends said that she thought that i was simply because i act somewhat masculine.. maybe you're that way too. I know of some males with the same problem, i like to think of it as a compliment just like a man hitting on me.
The ones i don't like are the ones that push after you say that you are straight..haha. good luck!
2006-12-02 16:17:33 · answer #3 · answered by attila 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they just find you attractive or maybe you're really gay? Somtimes it takes one to know one. A male friend of mine always got hit on by other guys, and he could never figuire out why until one day he realized that he was gay. Just a thought...
2006-12-02 16:15:04 · answer #4 · answered by toolgirl_75023 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take it as a compliment, feel free to experiment!
2006-12-02 16:22:09 · answer #5 · answered by N. Andrews 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
prolly cuz you are irresistable and they want you.
Just do it girls are hot!
2006-12-02 16:15:51 · answer #6 · answered by travis R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋