I met this girl a month ago and we had this instant connection, we have a great chemistry and comfort level. we watched movies, had pizza etc., and made out a few times but last 2 weeks she's been acting real weird. I tried calling her 3 times(fri, sun and next thurs) - left one voice mail too, but never heard back from her?
Is she ignoring me? Is she too busy? But, what about the courtesy to return to my calls??? Should I call her one more time, its been 4 days since I last tried????
2006-12-02 16:05:09 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hmm... only one voice mail, you say? maybe you need to try a little harder .. a couple of dozen voice mails should get her attention ..
and either a return call to you or your number gets blocked...
2006-12-02 19:32:03 · answer #1 · answered by Bender 6 · 7⤊ 0⤋
The answer is always that they are never too busy to return your calls. NEVER EVER leave voice mail -- it's how they screen their calls. My guess: she's found someone she likes better than you. Call Sunday evening (she should be around then, like most other normal people) and see if you can arrange another date with her. Here's a hint: If the girl really likes you, she will FIND time to talk to you and/or meet you. Nobody can work all the time like that. I have a 5 page paper due Monday as well as a final exam in a class I'm not doing so well in, and here I am answering a bunch of questions. So nobody can be that busy. And even if it were possible, you wouldn't want to be with someone like that anyway. Good night and good luck!
2006-12-02 16:17:56 · answer #2 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can never tell if the person is bz or ignoring you. all you have to do is take the chance to call the last time and just leave a message of how she is doing and tell her to call whenever she's free to talk. at least u made the request to call you back when she is not bz. just go on with you life and when she calls then u can see what goes from their.
2006-12-02 16:09:39 · answer #3 · answered by da skoolar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait for her to contact you, if it makes you feel better, leave a voice call telling her she should have the guts to tell you why she's been avoiding you and tell her how you feel towards her and that this is your last message and it's her choice now ... don't push it, you don't want to be the stalker with the restraining order.
2006-12-02 16:10:05 · answer #4 · answered by RandomChickSam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey no just wait until the the end of the week and if she don't call then she just standing you up go visit her tell her how you fell about her and see if she feels the same if so your on the right track if not keep it moving
2006-12-02 16:10:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
let it go... girls are easily lured into passion, so the making out thing is really no big deal... she might have gone home and thought about things and changed her mind... so let it go and move on, and don't be stalking her either,,, that's not cool dude... good luck to you..
2006-12-02 16:11:35 · answer #6 · answered by Traynor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me that she got freaked out by such a quick connection. she is really rude not to return your calls. yes, she is ignoring you, she probably isnt ready for a relationship. so do not call her again!!!!!!!!!!
2006-12-02 16:10:29 · answer #7 · answered by Flutie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait for her to get back in touch with you.
2006-12-02 16:08:14 · answer #8 · answered by Daiquiri Dream 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think she's ignoring you.. don't call her, wait for her to call.
2006-12-02 16:12:37 · answer #9 · answered by katrina_ponti 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably is seeing another guy.
2006-12-02 16:07:19 · answer #10 · answered by applebottomerotic 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋