2006-12-02 16:02:57 · 22 answers · asked by Jennifer S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He does it when he's out with me even though I've asked him to stop. Am I being overly jealous?
2006-12-02 16:06:20 · update #1
I dated a musician once and I know what you're talking about. I know it can hurt sometimes, but it's really just part of having and keeping fans. Although not to make you paranoid, some musicians simply loooove being in a band because it does attract women in flocks sometimes. Hopefully though you know him enough to tell if he's a good guy or not and his motives behind his flirtatious behavior.
2006-12-02 16:09:47 · answer #1 · answered by Jessica 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Does he only do this when he is onstage or does he do it other times as well. If the only time he does this is on stage then it is called making a connection with the audience. If he does it all the time, on and off stage, than it is something different and there may be a problem. A little bit of advice, if you are the jealous type, do not date musicians
2006-12-02 16:17:07 · answer #2 · answered by 'lil peanut 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's part of his stage image, his act, his job, If he can capture woman with his stage persona he will have a following, if a CD is made, he'll have money in the making from his eyes and his grins. If a CD isn't in the works, he will have a following, good for the bar manager. I guess you have to make a decision to accept it or leave it.
2006-12-02 16:13:11 · answer #3 · answered by atantatlantis 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He has to keep the people and the band pumped up, if he is going to make it in the business, you need to chill out and let him be. Even in bands you have to play to the audience, same as actors, gotta make the money one way or another.
2006-12-02 16:08:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Its part of his gig.
Also he probably plays around.
He IS in a band OMG isn't that how you met?
Have you never picked up a fan magazine and seen all the marriages that have lasted for twenty years?
What one, two? :[
either get used to it or get out.
2006-12-02 16:12:31 · answer #5 · answered by clic1_0 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's part of the rock-star appeal. Lots of guys do this — they have to keep the girls interested. But he's going to be coming home with you when the show's over, so why worry?
2006-12-03 05:11:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
its probably the faces he makes with his fans....dont get mad he still likes ui ts just the way bands are...they structure themselves around fan approval so dont get offeneded if he does those things 2 fans it simply means that he wants 2 get credit 4 being in a band
2006-12-02 16:07:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes, sex sells. no other way to say it but to date anyone in the entertainment business is tricky. Too many women that will do what ever you won't do. So you will always be jealous espeically if he makes it big.
2006-12-02 16:08:13 · answer #8 · answered by ronnell1972 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
don't worry hes not cheaint on u or anything.
people in a band do that to get more girl fans and he just tries to see how hot he lookzzz.
2006-12-02 16:09:15 · answer #9 · answered by steff m 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he likes you bu hes in a band so he does that i mean like im in a band and you have to do that because they love u so much
but i mostly do those eyes to my gf so i dont realy no
2006-12-02 16:08:20 · answer #10 · answered by jim D 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋