I have a friend who's boyfriends parents still see his ex's daughter regularly even though he cut contact because the ex used the little girl as a pawn.My friend has a daughter too and is upset that his parents pay the ex's little girl the same attention.should she be upset?
2006-12-02 15:59:07 · 5 answers · asked by SarahF 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I do leave it alone,but I listen to my friend who doesnt understand why they would still keep contact with one of his ex's kids when he doesn't.(He's not a bad person)I was just asking so maybe I could get an idea how to make my friend feel better.I am not involving myself in any way.
2006-12-02 16:15:44 · update #1
No i wouldn't be upset. They are obviously mature enough to realize that you can't just dump the child because the parents didn't work out. Now I wold be upset if i had a child and they ignored it while spending time with the other child.
2006-12-02 16:04:02 · answer #1 · answered by gnine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The relationship his parents have with the ex is between them and it's perfectly OK.
Your friend is entitled to be upset if she is upset but it's still not a reason to control other peoples relationships.
2006-12-03 00:32:27 · answer #2 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they are nice to her, what is the harm?Sounds as if the little kid already has enough trouble with that mother.
2006-12-03 00:13:16 · answer #3 · answered by Pesty Wadoo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just leave it alone she will work this one out herself
2006-12-03 00:43:54 · answer #4 · answered by dar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, LEAVE IT ALONE...SHE'S JUST A LITTLE KID, IT'S NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS WHAT THEY DO OR WHO THEY SEE
2006-12-03 00:03:58 · answer #5 · answered by ~*~ISABELLA~*~ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋