I love this girl...she is so pretty..every man's dream...she cooks, cleans, believes the man should be in charge, does whatever I ask it seems, but her handwriting I just don't like. She has tried to change it for me but I still don't like it. Her letters are too wide. I hate to throw in the towel on this relationship but i am at my wit's end...what do I do?
2006-12-02 15:54:08 · 53 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Every relationship involves some extent of compromise and tolerance. Accepting her hand writing is a very minor and tiny compromise to tolerate. If its only her handwriting that you don't like, GET OVER IT! If she goes to school and gets a few advanced degrees, her handwriting will surely change into something more sophisticated. Otherwise, ITS JUST HAND WRITING! Everything else is good. Ask her to use a type writer and quit being so superficial. It sounds like you're a control freak of a man. You're lucky to find a woman to put up with you. Now just love her and overlook that minor detail. She should not marry you if you would even give a second thought to something so trivial. Maybe this handwriting excuse is cover for something deeper lacking your relationship. You can't mold her into what you want her to be, she's not smart enough to marry, she's too willing to try to change and as a push over she's unattractive to you. It's got to be something else.
2006-12-02 15:58:46 · answer #1 · answered by Cynthia W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If everything else is perfect, what makes u think her handwriting could mean anything in your relationship ? I mean, what are you looking for, a good relationship, or a secretary or someone to do all your writing work (whatever that is) ? I agree, people's character could be read from the way they write, but have you ever tried to look up at your own writing ?
When she is doing everything, compromising on a lot of other things, you ought to look beyond someone's handwriting. And for you to get all worked up and be ''at my wit's end'', seriously, you do have your personal thoughts that needs some sorting out. Honestly, it is you who needs help, on your own thoughts, not this girl.
goodluck
2006-12-02 16:00:38 · answer #2 · answered by arya 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you serious. I WISH that was the only problem my husband and I had to deal with on a daily basis. Sounds like you have OCD. The problem is not your handwriting, buy your head. Why would you care about her handwriting so much. Were you abused via letter when you were young. What is up with you?
2006-12-02 15:59:24 · answer #3 · answered by Peanut Butter 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really love her than you shouldnt care what her handwriting looks like, you shouldnt even think twice about that. If you want to marry her, you should be so madly inlove that you dont care. My advice to you is to take a step back and ask yourself, do i really love her, or am i just saying that i do
2006-12-02 15:57:21 · answer #4 · answered by Laura K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm... u shouldn't judge a person based on their handwriting. Try not 2 b so shallow and look past her handwriting.
2006-12-02 15:56:23 · answer #5 · answered by daisylady2601 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you serious? Handwritting doesn't matter.What matters is love.If love is in the air you guys should get married,but I don't think handwritting will mess you guys up, and you know if she tried changing it that she truly loves you.
2006-12-02 15:57:13 · answer #6 · answered by JanJan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG, it's handwriting, not going to effect your relationship unless you have OCD. Also get it striaght resonsiblilities are equel and women need to be treated with respect. So get you butt up and help her she aint your slave. Just get over it, it's not your fault she writes like that is just how it is your not gonna read it she aint gonna send letters to you. She lives wit you.
2006-12-02 15:57:46 · answer #7 · answered by hottierecy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
her handwriting reflects her personality, and you can't change that.
and what is WRONG with you?
giving up on your dream girl because of her penmanship?
gosh, if i were the girl and you broke up the relationship because of such a stupid thing, i would probably see you as a lunatic.
btw- she thinks the MAN SHOULD BE IN CHARGE? in charge of what?
2006-12-02 16:14:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your kidding right you are a very shallow person. who cares about her handwriting. And plus since when did guys become in charge again?
2006-12-02 15:57:56 · answer #9 · answered by americangurl92 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg. U would not marry a girl u love because of her handwritng. That is shallow and sad. Get over her handwritng and look on the inside. She is a great girl. Marry her.
2006-12-02 15:57:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋