There is no question that she is cheating on me. Take that for certain. Should I just forget about her and let it go (move on) or try to burn her back?
2006-12-02 15:52:58 · 40 answers · asked by liberaltiger86 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am going to be completely honest with you. If she is cheating on you, she isn't getting what she wants from you. Whether or not you should give her another shot is up to you. No one here knows how much you care about her. It's your life and a bunch of strangers shouldn't make choices like that for you. Good luck, I hope everything turns out well!
2006-12-02 15:57:39 · answer #1 · answered by The Answer Man 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you ask who the other guy was? Has she shown signs of cheating before? Is this something you can work? If you are definite of all the answers to these, then you know what to do, but if you're having doubts just let her go, there is someone out there for you, she just might not be the one. U'll find someone else.
2006-12-02 15:55:55 · answer #2 · answered by endearingstar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not going to lie, revenge can be oh so sweet, but let me tell you, it is NOT the best route to go. Who's to say she won't turn around and try to hurt you even further? Some people are extremely vindictive. Move on buddy. It's the best thing you can do for yourself.
2006-12-02 15:56:46 · answer #3 · answered by Jessica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they are studying?
You are not married yet.
Do not be so possesive.
Everyday a person makes a decision to do things.
Let her make up her mind who she wants to spend time with - perhaps she will choose you and love you more for letting her figure out you are the best candidate rather than getting possessive and then proving to her you are not.
2006-12-02 15:56:41 · answer #4 · answered by Kerry Z 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what? You called and she was with another guy?
Since you say there's no question she's cheating, you obviously know something the rest of us don't. With that in mind....dump her! You don't want to set yourself up for "the next time", you do?
2006-12-02 15:57:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best revenge would be to go and have sex with the guy or his mother and then have sex with her again and and and and then you could all have the same diseases.
Or just take her off your speed dial and move on. Don't be a cuckold.
2006-12-02 16:04:56 · answer #6 · answered by clic1_0 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you must have gone crazy. but think twice before you take any drastic step. do not create an issue out of this. someone is made for every one. may be she is not made for you. why fuss?
you seems to be in double mind. talk it out with her in person, without loosing your head.
If she admits then let it go,
if she admits and says sorry then let it go,
if she admits but do not repent for what she has done let it go,
if she vow not to do it again then let it go.
if you still love her and are sure not to bring this again in your remaining life then let it go. peace be upon you.
love is not possessiveness. do not treat her as your own and only property.
2006-12-02 16:00:57 · answer #7 · answered by Ashok Chavda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on.It would help you.You need to let her go if she w=cheated on you she wasdn' good for you.Find another girlfriend don't even turn back.
2006-12-02 15:54:53 · answer #8 · answered by JanJan 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Pretend you don't know about the other bloke -
Heres an idea! Contact her, telling her you need to speak to her quite urgently and then drop the bomb shell - tell her you've got an STD! That should sort her out.
2006-12-02 15:57:05 · answer #9 · answered by Agony Aunt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. Umm if you know she is cheating then walk away. You could do better. Don't trust the fact that you can get her back and she won't do it again. She will, and you would be hurt again.
2006-12-02 15:56:56 · answer #10 · answered by Mellow_kitty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋