Feeling like a loser....am I?

Question

So....I'm feeling like a loser!....I can't seem to be happy with myself....because I am fat. We're talking tall and fat....and i try to change the parts i can...but nothnig seems to matter...i still get called names...and i always feel like an outcast at concerts...and all that stuff...coz i feel ugly....anything anyone can say to help me....lmao...

(wanna hook up even!?lol)jk..ishh

Answer 1

Hey who the hell are they to call you names or call you fat. You kick *** and there is nothing anyone can say that will bring you down. Don't let dumb asses belittle you because they are a bunch of jerks. Find some friends and chill with them. Some people are larger than others and what can you do. Take care of yourself and get some confidence. I get the feeling your still in high school. Believe it or not none of that crap matters after high school. Have some fun, ignore that *** hats out there and enjoy yourself. Work on your self image because you want to change not because of the ignorant punks out there. You let me know if you have any more issues... I will come out there and smack them around for you. I guarantee if you change even just your own attitude about yourself and see yourself as a big beautiful person that will stomp anyone that messes with you, your life will change.....

Good Luck

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Answer 2

You have to change your outlook on yourself. Fat or thin, you have to find something that makes you feel good inside about just being yourself. If you want to change the outside, try and find something that requires activity. You don't have to go to the gym everyday but you can find time each day to be active, that will be a start in getting healthier and possibly losing some weight. You might also examine your diet, look at some things you could cut back on and add healthier options instead.
The most important thing is knowing that you are not a loser and there is nothing wrong with you. You can start feeling good about yourself now, if you think positively about yourself. Then make some changes that will help the outside reflect what you feel about yourself on the inside. And make the changes for yourself, not for anyone else's approval. Also, don't listen to people who put you down, they aren't worth listening to. Keep people around you that respect you and support you.
I wish you the best of luck with everything!

Answer 3

Dont try and conform to the six pack abs and perfectly perky 36D's that are trying to run the world. Beauty fades and is not true beauty at all but often the beautiful gift wrapping on a box that holds something shallow and meaningless.
Change the things that you can that make YOU fell good about yourself. Hair, nails, clothes and how you carry yourself. All this adds up and shows.
I was always taller than the other kids in my school and always larger. I was the gentle giant.
I too was teased relentlessly and finally got tired of worrying about it. I litterally just stopped. When they said something about me, I would reply either with an insult or just wave my hand and say "whatever idiot" and go on. I could have beat their heads into the wall with no prob, but I didnt. Once they found they couldnt get to me, it stopped.
I was six two and three hundred and sixty pounds in my senior year. Not much smaller in my freshman year when they picked on me.
No one teased me and no one tried to bully me around either. Not because they feared me, but they saw I couldnt be reached with torment and ridicule.
Now that Im older and see the "perfect people" click from high school I laugh my *** off! The cheerleaders and jocks look like crack heads, the heads are in suits, the bookworms are either into politics or are managing banks or large business!!!
Seems like we outcasts are the ones who really come out ahead in life. We deal with problems as they come at us and not have daddy pay someone to deal with them for us.

Also look at it this way...If you are always taller in crowds, you will be easier to get some guys attention if your always in view! You may have one upped the competition and not even known it!!!

Answer 4

Well I don't want to hook up but I can tell u this.If you are in H.S then this will not last.Things are so different when u get out.People love tall people. If your going to college then wait and see.It will be different. Plus start doing pilates.It is something that u can do 20 minutes three times a week and u don't sweat. You can rent a tape at a video store. It worked for me.Good luck

Answer 5

My Dear Young Lady,
Never feel down and out, never put your-self down. Never lose your confidence. Always believe in your-
self. Remember that you are a very special person. You have a heart beat, and that alone is something wonderful. You have been blessed with the miracle of life. You should cherish this gift as
well as yourself. Always look to the bright side, life is so short
there is no time to be negitive. Go forth, be brave, always hold
your head high. And above all, remember that you are beautiful.

Sincerely, Jerry aka [e-mail]

Answer 6

first u might not be fat. look up online a bmi calculater. My bmi is 17.5 which means i am underweight. Try 2 lose weight if the calculater says u should. i found the fastest way is 2 go vegan. It's easy becuz all u have 2 do is eat no meat thats all. Plus be4 dinner try 2 walk cuz it will make u less hungry. Also ice cold water burns calories (cuz your body has 2 heat it up) and it fill u up. How cool!! LOL

Answer 7

theres isn't much i can add here, everyone else has already said what can be said so i'll just repeat a few big points.

one of the only ways people can ever feel good about themselves is by pointing out what THEY consider the flaws in others. so it's only a flaw if you believe them and why believe a bunch of assholes? the only opinion that should matter is your own. don't believe that you're ugly or fat just because others say so.

everyone is beautiful and your image is not the only thing that people should look at.

Answer 8

Hey.. I don't think you're a loser.. Well, I don't know you at all to decide if you're fat etc.. Hook up..? Erm, I'm in London so I can't lol.. People calling names.. That's lame.. People really gotta fix themselves before deciding how someone else is wrong or right.. I used to get called names before.. When I was younger.. But it's not happened in a long time.. ish.. lol.. Nothing serious I don't think.. But sometimes you gotta stand up for yourself.. Hope you feel better soon or do already.. Thanks for calling me cute lol.. =)

Answer 9

When you are a little older, when people respect you because you are good at what you do, when your husband respects you because of what a good mom you are, when your kids love you as their first instructor in life, when people depend on you because they know that they can, when you define yourself by your talents & personal qualities & attitudes, not the shape of the package but what you have developed & discovered inside, then you will not be asking advice from the cybercommunity - you will know the anwer yourself.

Peace,

;-)

Answer 10

You have to do what you have to do. If you are overweight then you need to start living on salad and speed walking if you want to lose the weight. You I bet are not ugly- you just feel that way. Maybe you need to go get some counsel. Go for it . Nobody needs to know and it cant hurt. Try to think of some good things you have like Yahoo Answers!!!! Good Luck sweetie ox