When I go to the gym, guys are staring at me all of the time. Why? I'm not hot. I know that. I'm just average. So, do they think I'm gross or something? I do work out pretty hard. So, maybe they think I'm nasty.
2006-12-02 15:35:10 · 17 answers · asked by bec 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Let me tell you something. Give me a girl who thinks she is "average" any day.
[1] She isn't - she has a great attitude and attitude is 90% of the game.
[2] Girls who are "hot" at the gym are, 99 times out of 100, TOTAL stuck-up rude b*tches who crave being stared at but act like nose-in-the-air tw*ts if the "wrong" guy fancies a look. F_ck them!
[3] Think of the scene from 'Beautiful Mind' - why go for the 'hot' one (who usually has no a$s and a rib cage like a pile of coat hangers and a snotty entitled 'eww don't get any on me' attitude to match - bleccch) when there is less competition for the "average" but built curvy 'normal' looking fun smart girl?
I bet you are a d*amn sight better looking than you think - or GUYS WOULDN'T BE STARING. We don't waste our time. Don't believe everything Elle magazine is trying to tell you about what is hot.
The working out - is working.
2006-12-02 15:47:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
You may be the most beautiful person in the world and not know it. You are going to the gym and guys are staring at you. Just this little information tells me that you are beautiful. Stand tall baby you are in the spot light.
2006-12-02 15:48:38 · answer #2 · answered by Chuck 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about those guys. You're going to the gym to better yourself, and it doesn't matter what anyone thinks.
But, they could like the idea of a woman who takes care of herself. Maybe you should talk to one of them?
2006-12-02 15:37:59 · answer #3 · answered by ♥BR♥ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Haha. nicely the subsequent time he stares, megastar at him decrease back, then smile & seem away proper once you smile!!! Then seem decrease back to work out if he continues to be staring...and if he's, he might want to be smiling to. If no longer. tell him to stop observing you because it is freaking you out haha. except he's amazing for sure ;)
2016-11-23 13:45:11 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because you think that you aren't HOT don't you that you are not. the only reason I can think of is that you must look rreally good to them, and they are trying to find a way to talk to you.
2006-12-02 15:39:28 · answer #5 · answered by Jerome E 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. They like looking at you in your gym clothes. I love seeing women in gym clothes.
2006-12-02 15:37:28 · answer #6 · answered by robert f 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i dont think girls who work out are nasty.
i mean unless you look like you're killing youself while you work out. or maybe you just run funny on the treadmills. the one thing that does scare me is when a girl works out with really heavy weights.
so, unless you are really fat or you run weird, than they are probably checking you out.
2006-12-02 15:40:38 · answer #7 · answered by program dude 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my guess: yeah you're probably hot, or just insanely ripped for a girl. post your pic at hotornot.com to see if you really are as average as you think
2006-12-02 15:38:24 · answer #8 · answered by Matt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say that you have to have something they like because if your ugly then guys dont like any more then they have to I know from experience.
2006-12-02 15:39:08 · answer #9 · answered by Robert B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe they're impressed. im sure they don't see to many girls sweating like pigs at the gym. most girls don't want to sweat in front of men, it would be "too embarrassing".
2006-12-02 15:39:52 · answer #10 · answered by grocerygirl_24 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋