2006-12-02 14:34:22 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
They think their child is perfect and that they raised them perfectly and therefore they know everything. They are blind to others.
2006-12-02 14:38:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i agree with all the other answers on here! there will never be another person that they feel can take care of their child the way that they can, they don't want to lose that feeling of being the one that they need, and of course they don't want to see their son hurt or used and they have that fear. some mothers don't even want to take a chance to know that person and see the good in them!
Some people just have issues like gossip and other things they do so it just makes a new person in the family to talk about. but their are some mother n laws that love the person like their own kid! my kids are still toddlers but i'm sure one day i will find out the reason why, But I hope I like my daughter n laws, because thats the person my sons chose to be with, have a family with and be in their lives forever. don't get me wrong when i really think about it I know how alot of us are and I hope and pray they are blessed with a good woman in their life!
2006-12-02 14:51:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They all aren't. I'm a mother-in-law, and I'm not. I've had two mothers-in-law in my life, and they weren't. My mom is a mother-in-law, and she isn't either. I'm sorry yours is. All I can suggest is that you try to ignore the bad stuff about her and focus on the good (there must be some there), eventually maybe she will soften about the edges. It may not help, But you're gonna be stuck with her for a very long time so it couldn't hurt to try.
2006-12-02 14:43:17 · answer #3 · answered by kj 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunatly, I really feel its because no one is good enough for her son. I have a son and hopefully when it comes time I will not belittle my daughter in law. I always get asked what did you make for dinner. How is that diet going. Be better than her nit picking. If she makes rude comments. Turn it back on her. exp: Oh, I am sorry you think that I don't cook enough. Act like she is a customer, coworker or boss. This is working for me. Hehehehehe.
2006-12-02 14:53:18 · answer #4 · answered by ryansmommy0725 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL I am a mother in law and I am neither rude or judemental. Had to get that straight. All of us arent. Sometimes as with my friends they are rude and judgemental and it comes from their son or daughter telling them things putting their mate down. It rubs off. You are a human being and deserve respect. I would demand it frankly. Your mother in law need to learn you are the woman her son loves; if she loves her son and trusts him then she has to feel he found his perfect love. Tell her to back the hell off.
2006-12-02 14:38:24 · answer #5 · answered by chattylady47150 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Because some women find it hard to be replaced as the #1 woman in their son's life. They are selfish and are not thinking of their son's happiness.
I have an unfriendly MIL and can promise that when my 3 little boys grow up, I'll treat their wives well, even if I don't like them. All that should be important to a parent is the happiness and wellbeing of their child.
I don't like my MIL, but I do love her because she raised the man I love and did a great job. She doesn't have to like me, but mutual respect would be nice.
2006-12-02 15:01:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember this; mother-in-laws become grandmas if they don't become ex-mother-in-laws first. Patience!! If she's like in the middle of the marriage, three's a crowd and you might have to stake your territory. Eve sure messed a good thing up didn't she as she didn't have a mother-in-law!!
2006-12-02 14:54:13 · answer #7 · answered by Lovin' Mary's Lamb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all are, I had a wonderful, loving and giving mother in law. However, I know that some can be really hateful and mean. God bless****
2006-12-02 14:36:52 · answer #8 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree it is mandatory to seek for suggestion from including your husband. in the period in-between, you may ask her if her habit is transforming into to a Christian. you've the right to no longer enable travelers in one day. Be as superb as you may and tell her that you aren't to any extent further prepared and can want to ought to make it yet over again. follow your guns and be effective your husband will stand with you. you may consistently have "living house regulations" and use them for such activities. (which contain no telephone calls after 10 pm, no unannounced travelers or perhaps if that matches your needs.)
2016-11-23 13:39:52 · answer #9 · answered by frick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gosh I better not be this way when my kids get married...
Not all of them are this way, my ex mother in law was, but there has to be hope! I hope I am the hope lol!
2006-12-02 14:41:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think that every mother wants the best for their child, they will always find some fault with the one their child is with.
2006-12-02 14:36:04 · answer #11 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋