I am very attracted to my girlfriend and don't want anyone else.But she thinks something is wrong with her because guys are supposed to want it all the time.What should I do?
2006-12-02 14:28:51 · 9 answers · asked by BubbyWubby 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nothing wrong with you at all. Just make sure that you reassure her a LOT that it's not her. And on occasion it wouldn't hurt to attempt to please her even when you're not in the mood. You might be surprised that in doing so, it may in fact increase your own interest here and there. Women have a tendency to feel very rejected when their men don't show an interest. If you love her, you'll consider her feelings, make sure that you give her attention in other ways so that she doesn't feel that she is unwanted. And like I said, even when you're not in the mood, you can please her in other ways without full blown intercourse. You must be a decent, sensitive guy if you're even asking this question, so kudos to you. (and good luck as well)
2006-12-02 14:40:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sounds a little weird to me... I'm guessing you aren't all that attracted to her. Men are capable of daily love making, sometimes more so only twice a month might mean there is something amiss... see a doctor. .
2006-12-02 22:34:27 · answer #2 · answered by Michael da Man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could be overworked, overstressed or tired. However, contrary to belief not all men hump 24/7. Try relaxing a bit, if that doesn't work, try spicing it up a bit. If all else fails, accept that you have a low libido meaning more time for your brain to think.
2006-12-02 22:32:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone has their own sex drive. Some are high and some are low. If you've always been this way, then I wouldn't worry about it. If you used to have a higher drive and it's dropped, that's when you should worry.
2006-12-02 22:33:28 · answer #4 · answered by mikah_smiles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think there is anything wrong with you, you just have a low sex drive. Explain to her that it's not her.
2006-12-02 22:30:46 · answer #5 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every body is different. Thats the fun of it.
2006-12-02 22:30:58 · answer #6 · answered by Becky F 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your needs are not like others, so don;t worry about it
2006-12-02 22:35:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well no offense do you think you like men?
2006-12-02 22:33:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe youre gay
2006-12-02 22:31:35 · answer #9 · answered by connie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋