I have a test to take for to become a correctinal security officer at the Prison Unit. You can take it on Wednesday, or Thursday. I have to take my aunt to get her surgery and plus she is dieing. I didn't know that I had to take her until today, and my girlfriend called me a liar, because I said I was going to take it Wednesday, but I change it to Thursday. I'm going to take it thursday because I'm taking my aunt wednesday. Now if I had one day to take it then she would have to find someone else ,but I have 2 days. Is I'm wrong for changing my date. My girl think she should come first, plus she is preganant. I do everything for her,but I get talked about. Is she wrong for telling me that I shouldn't take my aunt?
2006-12-02 14:16:28 · 6 answers · asked by Troy T 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She's being selfish.....you need to help your aunt AND do what is best for you new career. if she loves you, she will understand this. Sure your girlfriend should be important to you but she should know that there will be times when she will not come first! Good luck
2006-12-02 14:18:29 · answer #1 · answered by Sydney'sMommy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that your first responsibility should be to your dying aunt. It's no big deal, you can still take the test. Your aunt will not be here forever, you need to help her while she is here.
2006-12-02 22:18:59 · answer #2 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you already answered the question she pregnat and all she worried about is that little baby and its future also the both of yours of course so if somthing comes in the way she will get mad sorry but you might have to choose family or future
2006-12-02 22:23:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she needs to chill for a little bit.. you said you do many things for her, right ? so she needs to be a little less greedy and undersatnd that you need to help you aunt....... since shes pregnant she could be a little hormonal then usuall.... that could explain.. but if shes always like that.. then you have a bit of a problem....... you should talk to her about it
2006-12-02 22:20:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes she is wrong. she is important too but your aunt is dieing and you need a job so yeah!!
GOOD LUCK!!
2006-12-02 22:22:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she shoudnt have dont that and she should understand but not all people do all i can say is do your best and good luck with everything
2006-12-02 22:19:38 · answer #6 · answered by gemini_dragon_gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋