Like if you met him in a club a you realy like him would you sleep with him.
2006-12-02 14:15:23 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I wouldnt. You barely know the person, he could have so many stds and be a freak or rape you or something. I usually think the worst before I do stuff like that. But the final decision is up to you, this is just my opinion.
2006-12-02 14:17:22 · answer #1 · answered by MX 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
It's acceptable. Use a connie, make sure he's clean. Make sure he's intto it. If you're sure that's what you want to do, there's no real reason not to. Just keep in mind that really liking someone and being physically intimate with them is very different. You may want to take a couple of days to consider whether you like the person only in a physical sense or if there may be more there. If there's more, you may want to hold off. Having meaningless sex can be an easy way to ruin an otherwise wonderful relationship.
2006-12-02 14:19:11 · answer #2 · answered by people_remember_my_name 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
You already know the answer to this, or you wouldn't have even asked.
No, of course it's not okay. If you're the sort of person who thinks anything goes sexually, you go ahead and do it, but please be sure to use a condom, and know that you have lost the respect of a lot of people for doing it.
Personally, I think that would make you a weak person morally, and promiscuous, too. But I guess promiscuity isn't considered a "bad" thing anymore.
2006-12-02 14:17:55 · answer #3 · answered by Lanani 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Why are you even asking this question? How old are you? No it is not smart to sleep with someone the first time you meet them. Think std's, a crazy person. Get your butt home and get some sense.
2006-12-02 14:21:10 · answer #4 · answered by 1stladyb 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Uh - Hello - Morales? Do you ever think about STD's? STD's you have the rest of your life - and some could even be the death of you...What if you came up pregnant? What if you had a jealous wife/girlfriend show up at your door - ready to hurt you? You don't know this person...don't you owe it to yourself - to be a little better than all that?
If he is worth all that - get his number - go out a few times - get to know him - then make up your mind....and if your worth that to him...then this question wouldn't be coming up. Its about RESPECT. RESPECT YOURSELF! EXPECT HIM TO RESPECT YOU - you should respect him too!
2006-12-02 14:20:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you like him enough not to see him ever again sure... believe me i've fallen for this before. Generally guys will say anything to get you to sleep with them if thats what they are looking for, even by saying that you dont have to sleep with him- takes the pressure off, so you're more likely to. If you really like him, make him wait. If he really likes you, he will too.
2006-12-02 14:18:11 · answer #6 · answered by gallcat_11 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
No. You should never have sex with someone you meet in a club anyhow...Guys and girls that frequent clubs are looking for quick hookups and often end in disappointment.
2006-12-02 14:17:24 · answer #7 · answered by sshazzam 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
no because how do you know if you really like him or not, he could be a freak or an asshole. find out more about him and then decide if he's worth sleeping with.
2006-12-02 14:23:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Personally, not my style, but if you go about it safely (condom, make sure a friend knows where you're going and who with, etc.) and you're both above the age of consent and not in exclusive relationships, then why not?
2006-12-02 14:18:05 · answer #9 · answered by mikah_smiles 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Not the smartest thing in the world, but it depends upon your personal moral code.
2006-12-02 14:17:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋