We're not kinky or anything, but we want variety. Her sister's best friend came onto me, and I asked her if she was interested. She said yes, but now my girlfriend is getting nervous and changed her mind. Should I just go ahead and do it with the new girl?
2006-12-02 13:43:54 · 43 answers · asked by flip4it 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That is very shakey ground. I would recommend keeping the third person just to fantasy and not reality. I have know several people that have thought this would spice up their relationship, but in the end jealousy and resentment continue to build and the relationship becomes irrepairable. If you love your partner, you should know her inside and out. Her feelings of nervousness are a red flag and sure tell sign that this will ruin her in the end.
2006-12-02 13:48:29 · answer #1 · answered by blankie 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if your girl is not down with it, then its like your cheating on her so theres no threesome there! If you are bored enough with your girl, then maybe you should break up with her, THEN screw around with the sister's best friend. If not then just wait and see if your girl changes her mind again, that way you are doing that together
PS why dont you let your girlfriend pick the third person instead, i think that might work better
2006-12-02 13:50:01 · answer #2 · answered by Esme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say only if your g/f agrees, should you proceed. Otherwise you are betraying her trust and could cause irreparable damage to the relationship. If you really love your g/f, then be sure that any fun and games that include other people are agreed upon first. My last long term g/f and I were in the swinging lifestyle and it was a lot of fun.
2006-12-02 13:57:35 · answer #3 · answered by mike w 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't cherish your relationship with your girlfriend and don't mind being hated by her for the rest of your life then I say go ahead. If u love her or care for her ask your girlfriend how she feels about it then make ur decision based upon her answer.
2006-12-02 13:49:26 · answer #4 · answered by MS_B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never "go ahead and do" anything in a relationship. your gf doesnt want to anymore because she is affraid you will end up liking the "other girl" better. but you need to talk to your gf, let her know that you talked to the girl. just set some rules of what can or cannot be done durring 3some.
2006-12-02 13:50:27 · answer #5 · answered by March Mommie 07 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
6 ways from sun down. In every position invented in hell and using all the right hardware. You make her have an out-of-body experience so that her spirit can find your girl friend and tell her to get her prude **** into the whirlwind of lust destroying your bedroom right now. Remember, if you do this though, she is going to find out (if she doesn't join) and could hate you for it. So remember, always trade up. Make sure the friend is hotter than your GF.
2006-12-02 13:49:06 · answer #6 · answered by Voice of Reason 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, you shouldn't "go ahead and do it with the new girl".
Maybe you should bring a guy in first; your girlfriend may be more open to another girl after that.
2006-12-02 13:46:03 · answer #7 · answered by MsMath 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah to me that's kinky. I had a g/f once who introduced me to her partner. They were bi and my god the two of them almost killed me. Was it good? I think maybe. I don't remember everything. After about an hour I must have passed out.
2006-12-02 13:47:54 · answer #8 · answered by teetiger 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The biggest problem is STD's. Most people don't even know they have them. The more partners you are with, the more likely you will contract at least one. Everyone you participate with has a chance of already having at least one STD.
2006-12-02 13:51:33 · answer #9 · answered by Thomas M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you do it will probably end your relationship with your girlfriend. What if it was the other way around and the threesome involved another guy instead of the girl? Would you be ok with that?
2006-12-02 13:47:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋