I would love to marry him but im nervous and because of our situation we wouldnt get married for about 2 years... what should i do? please help...
2006-12-02 13:42:31 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That's so exciting. If you want to marry him, say yes. A long engagement is ok. My sister's bf is going to be coming home from the army for Christmas and he's going to propose, so they are going to have to wait like 2-3 years. **** Luck!
2006-12-02 13:48:51 · answer #1 · answered by r_finewood 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi I would say follow your heart and let it decide but if you love him say yes and no matter how long it takes lease you know that you wont lose him and you two would be together and have a long life ahead of you enjoy the time together before you say I do because when the I dos come then life as two starts take it slow and enjoy life with each other and follow your heart lifes to short good luck and if you love him you already know your answer!!!
2006-12-02 21:49:46 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing with a long engagment! that gives you plenty of time to talk about future plans. ask him where he'd like to be in 10 years, and how he plans on getting there. if you really want to be with him, say yes!!!!! don't get cold feet over some fear that u have that might not ever happen.
2006-12-02 21:46:39 · answer #3 · answered by March Mommie 07 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on how long u have been dating really? mom says to wait at least 2 years! one of my sisters waited for about five and is now happily married and they are about to celebrate their 6th anniversary. my other sister date her husband for 7 years and they just got married in October.
if have been dating him for about to year then say yes! planning a wedding takes about a year! and you need to save up money as well!
if not, then follow your heart.
2006-12-02 21:53:10 · answer #4 · answered by Karen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anyone under 40 is too young to get married. You will probably hate each other, fight over money and the kids and then get divorced and be bitter. Save yourself this agony.
2006-12-02 21:50:58 · answer #5 · answered by alpha_trolls 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it until he actually asks you.
When he asks you, say yes(if that's how you feel) but tell him you'd like a long engagement and then explain why.
It's great that you're being responsible, but don't let that ruin the moment. Good luck ;)
2006-12-02 21:45:03 · answer #6 · answered by blondie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he asks say yes, then plan your perfect wedding. Think of it this way...two years gives you enough time to get exactly what you want.
2006-12-02 21:45:04 · answer #7 · answered by Alishia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your asking this question to me that means your unsure what does that tell you,it dont sound like a yes to me then again its just me.
2006-12-02 21:50:45 · answer #8 · answered by likeablerabbit_loose 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with him...no wiat....Yeah...be honest that should work things out eventually, dont lead him on or whatever
2006-12-02 21:44:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
say yes
2006-12-02 21:44:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋