and all guys want to do that. I'm sick and tired of hearing that. My question is for the lovely ladies this evening, what do you want out of a relationship. Heck I'll be the first one to ask that question. Ya are very confusing. And I promise you I am not a chauvenist pig, just wanting to be enlightened so that way I know what you look for in a good man.
2006-12-02 13:14:44 · 21 answers · asked by Bobby G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Actually a perfect relationship for me would be one where the guy WASN'T only there for the physical aspect of it. But also for the emotional one. That's really hard to find now, it's true. And I'm going to be on watch of your question because I was just thinking the same thing. What I want out of a relationship?? Hmm...I want security, protection, caring, someone to trust and talk to whenever, about anything...
happiness. =) Someone always to stick by me.
2006-12-02 13:17:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls are looking for someone to beat them at their own game. before you jump to conclusions, let me explain. Think about back when a girl was pissed off or irritated, and for as many times as you asked what was wrong she wouldn't tell you , just expected you should know. That can pretty much apply to everything... wonderful huh. Let me put it this way. If you really like a girl enough to date her, and you want to keep her around, ill assume by that point you know a fair amount about her. what she likes dislikes... etc. So every once in a while take the time, the extra little step to put the toilet seat down, or ask her whats on her mind, before she gets irritated. you suggest going out, you figure out where. And as for the sex issue... the majority of girls want it just as bad as guys, we are just much better at hiding it.
2006-12-02 21:24:17 · answer #2 · answered by gallcat_11 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all congrats for not being a pig like almost all of the male population and 75 percent of the females im in the 25% that rnt anyway we like guys that are funny nice caring non clingy and non stalky lol
2006-12-02 21:17:20 · answer #3 · answered by Nightchild 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Women want a friend, someone who will listen to them. And talk to us too. We want honesty too. If men would take just 1/2 an hour everyday to talk to their partners I think there would be more happy women in this world. And the great sex would come naturally.
2006-12-02 21:20:26 · answer #4 · answered by mamabear 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WE WANT MORE THAN SEX!!!! Simple. You keep hearing this because everytime we meet a decent guy that we think is after more than our looks- he keeps trying to bed us. Which is fine, I mean we're not asexual, but come on! A conversation, just hanging out, CALLING us. What we want out of a relationship is someone who CARES about us. We want to feel that you want more than our bodies. That you want US.
2006-12-02 21:18:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
In a relationship I'd like to know it will work for awhile. I want love and trust both ways. I look for a man who is good with my daughter, shows interest in me, talks to me, helps me and does nice things for me. He has got to be like a friend to me too.
2006-12-02 21:22:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys do want sex.....
Are you arguing that?
Ladies are individuals, we are all looking for different things, but I think we are all looking for a guy who is honest about who he is. Not someone who pretends he's something different (who he thinks we want) just to get some...
We like a guy who is going to respect us, our opinions, our thoughts.
You aren't going to be the right guy for every girl you date, but you will be the right one for the only one who matters, and that will be the one who you adore and respect!
Thats what dating is all about.
2006-12-02 21:20:06 · answer #7 · answered by my-kids-mom 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that all guys want to have sex. Just only 90% of them do. I want someone I can just talk to. Someone that will understand me and I can just be myself around. A guy that's not afraid to have me around his friends. A guy that will pray for me and with me when I need him to.
2006-12-02 21:19:40 · answer #8 · answered by tonja20770 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I want a man to have manners, respecect for me and my beliefs and most important, listen to me. Not just hear what I say, but really try to understand what I say. I know, alot of work you might be thinking. But this behavior sticks out and is appreciated alot.
2006-12-02 21:19:00 · answer #9 · answered by l'il mama 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
the way most girls act now days,they want the same thing only thing is they like to blame it on the boys if& when anything happens. Like oh!! I think I am pregnant!!
2006-12-02 21:19:12 · answer #10 · answered by Tired Old Man 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋