If ur dad was gay and the guy he was going out with was like ur 2nd father and loved them both very much. but one day u walked in on ur real dad having sex with some1 else. and he told u not tell.would u tell or would keep it a secret?
2006-12-02 12:34:13 · 18 answers · asked by Simply Me 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Absolutely...keepa you mouth shut.
2006-12-02 12:36:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, don't cause any trouble with anyone. Believe me there are enough troubles without adding to everyday stresses. Talk to your dad, but for a moment, consider this:
You dad is only human. He is a sexual being just as you are. He has probably slipped up and done something he wishes he hadn't. Give him the LOVE of a break this Holiday Season. Tell him you won't ever tell - tell him he can talk to you about this any time. Be his friend. That would be great. A friend and a son. Not a bad idea. Best Wishes.
2006-12-02 20:47:48 · answer #2 · answered by SuperCityRob 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd try to talk to your real dad alone. I'd tell him he's really put you in a spot seeing how he wants you to keep a secret from the other man who's like your second dad and that since you feel close to the man that's like your second dad you hate the idea of having to keep this secret from him. Maybe you both can come up with a solution to this problem. Good luck to you. ;o)
2006-12-02 20:45:17 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it isn't right to keep a secret like this, because he could do it again and if 2nd father finds out about the first time its really going to hurt him. If you tell him now maybe they can work something out.
2006-12-02 20:38:14 · answer #4 · answered by Lia*808 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I probably wouldn't say anything, but that's a very heavy load, for him to ask you to carry, being that his partner, is like a second father to you. I would definitely sit down and have a talk with my father and let him know that you don't feel comfortable with what you walked in on and that his cheating on his partner, needs to stop.
2006-12-02 20:40:58 · answer #5 · answered by A_WWE_FAN_4LYFE 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, that would be tough. I think the best thing to do is sit with your real dad and have a heart-to-heart talk to let him know how you feel about about the "2nd father" figure.
2006-12-02 20:44:41 · answer #6 · answered by kimmer 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you love this other guy like he was your second father you should not keep things from him. even if it means betraying your real dad. besides there aren't supposed to be secrets in relationships right. all honesty
2006-12-02 20:38:35 · answer #7 · answered by missycowrocker 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd sit down with my dad and have hime explain to me why he did it and give me a legit reason why I should not say anything. It's not right what he did and he needs to realize that. Depending on what he says I would lean more towards telling.
2006-12-02 20:40:27 · answer #8 · answered by ~* 3 Months Prego*~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldnt tell but i would talk to my dad about it and tell him he should do the right thing and tell his real lover about it and apologize it will be much more worse for the other guy to find out on his own then for him to have the truth told straight to his face from your dad
2006-12-02 20:37:42 · answer #9 · answered by jessi h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess I would keep it a secret. This is a terrible spot for your dad to put you in though.
2006-12-02 20:36:11 · answer #10 · answered by goldensparkler61 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would probably not say anything, but I`d feel so terrible about it. You probably need to talk to him about it, figure out why he`s cheating, and hopefully you can get him to confess on his own. He doesn`t love his parner if he`s cheating on him.
2006-12-02 20:39:44 · answer #11 · answered by SRAWRRR 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋