My mom always lets my brother get away with everything.my mom always takes my brothers side in everything!I cant stand it!thats why me and my mom argue alot.what should i do?
2006-12-02 12:26:12 · 8 answers · asked by girlygirl8 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
For some reason, your brother has managed to "obtain your Mother's ear." Is he older and more sophistocated in the ways of the world than you? Has he backstabbed you to your mother and made her believe things about you that aren't true? Is he actually jealous of you and trying to "keep you down." Is your Mother being duped?
If none of this is the case, then maybe there are issues with you that you need to address. Are you being a good daughter, are you doing all you know of to do to avoid misbehaving?
2006-12-02 12:34:27 · answer #1 · answered by MandaPanda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are perhaps numerous possible explanations. One is that, maybe when she sees you, she remembers a relationship that she wished hadn't ever occured. Or maybe you just don't know how to sound convincing and are the most problematic, compared to your brother. Maybe you should talk to a counselor.
2006-12-02 20:37:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try sitting your mom down and talking to her like a mature young lady and let her know how you feel about the way that she treats you.
2006-12-02 21:14:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask your mother for some time to talk heart to heart with her in
a respectful way, but be honest in owning your hurt feelings in how it seems to you at home. Ask her what she feels could improve your relationship with her. Be willing to listen and learn
to bring about understanding
2006-12-02 21:28:28 · answer #4 · answered by ydr2go 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may seem horrible because girls and moms just don't seem to click from time to time and we just want to kill one another. The solution is to not let it get to you and make such a big deal about it.
2006-12-02 20:39:12 · answer #5 · answered by Dancing Queen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give ur mother some explanation that she cant let ur brother do everything that ur brother like. coz it will make a bad effect for ur brother and also with ur family. but when u argue with her, please using soft words so ur mother will not angry with u and maybe she will understand and didnt let ur brother to do that anymore. goodluck
2006-12-02 20:29:59 · answer #6 · answered by dena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing u can do but just tell her how u feel
2006-12-02 20:30:35 · answer #7 · answered by Sweetheart88 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good luck on any thing you do
2006-12-02 20:28:32 · answer #8 · answered by sumer h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋