i have a boyfriend but most of my friends dont like him. why i dont know, his friends like me but mine dont like him. it isnt fair to him ya know? what can i do to make my friends like my boyfriend. my friends are all guys and i dont know whats wrong with them. they usually dont act like this. help?
2006-12-02 12:25:52 · 7 answers · asked by english_kitten_14 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
all of my friends are gothic, emo, and punk. my boyfreind is a skater....skaters and them DONT mix. what can i do?
2006-12-02 12:32:12 · update #1
Could be that they're protecting you like a sister, or all of them have a thing for you. You cant make someone like someone else. Its their decision. Tell your friends they need to get over it cause your boyfriend isnt going anywhere. f they cant accept that, then their not true friends. Best of luck to ya!
2006-12-02 12:29:42 · answer #1 · answered by PfcsBaby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should ask them why they don't like him and explain that both your boyfriend and them are important to you and you would like it if they could all hang out with you.
Just ask them to give him a chance. I am sure if they are your real friends they will be willing to do that for you. Maybe they feel threatened by him, who knows. But I would first approach the subject with your friends to see if they could just give him a chance and see why they don' t like him. After you get that information you will be able to work on the problem.
2006-12-02 20:31:54 · answer #2 · answered by melissa_anne_maison 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They could be jealous. Or protective. Ask them. Or You can all get 2gether and spend some time with eachother. If your bf is a nice guy your friends will see that and things might be better.
2006-12-02 20:33:38 · answer #3 · answered by Shivanie R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude this is exactly like a tv show. your guys either like you or they don't approve of the new guy. for them to be your best friends they must know you pretty well and want to look out for you so they could see something about this guy that you don't. they most likely care for you so i would consider talking to them about it.
2006-12-02 20:33:35 · answer #4 · answered by missycowrocker 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur friends mght b feeli a little jealous cos they probably thnk ur spendin 2 mch tme w him instead of em. try gettin ur friends 2 spend tme w u and ur bf so they can get 2 kno him better. they'll lke him once they get 2 kno him. trust me. :)
2006-12-02 20:31:28 · answer #5 · answered by hedrvesmecrzy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they like you, or maybe he's a jerk and you don't see it. What don't they like about him? Try to see it from their perspective and see if they have legitimate concerns. If it's bs, just invite him to hang out and eventually the'll like him.
2006-12-02 20:30:25 · answer #6 · answered by LSD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they are probably jealous.
2006-12-02 20:30:14 · answer #7 · answered by lanseninsane 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋