ok. so. im kinda confused. today me and my bf were supposed to see a movie. but he didnt go cause he wanted to ride his quads instead. + this wasnt even a chick flick it was a movie he wanted to see! i know i kinda sound selfish but shouldnt your boyfriend put you in front? and hes even told me he loves his bikes better than me. im sure he was kidding but, should i dump him?
Btw: i asked this question before
2006-12-02 12:22:06 · 22 answers · asked by kizsescoco13 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dump him only if he keeps on putting his friends first.
2006-12-02 12:25:36 · answer #1 · answered by meaty_okra 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt get too bent out of shape over this.. As long as its not a constant thing... Do you ever go with him to ride.. Maybe you should ask if you can go and ride with him.. to make up for the time you didnt spend at the movies.. Dont worry about, he's a man... Men like their toys..
2006-12-02 12:24:46 · answer #2 · answered by Indymom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is up to you but it sounds like you want a boyfriend that will be more attentive to you. You are hoping that your current boyfriend will change, but unfortunately it seems like he is not mature enough to commit and be in a relationship right now. I would first explain to him how you feel about him bailing on plans, comments about his bike etc. and see if he works harder to regard your feelings more and then if not, I would cut your losses.
2006-12-02 12:28:15 · answer #3 · answered by melissa_anne_maison 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well next week arrange to go to the cinema again with him. At the last minute go shopping with your girlie friends and see what he says. What is good for him is good for you. If you are meant to be together he will realise what he did to you was wrong and your relationship can you forward. If not just find someone better.
2006-12-02 12:26:34 · answer #4 · answered by Closed Down 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has the right to be his own man but if it is every time then some thing is up , but some times they need time with the boys and by himself too you really do not need to dump him think about it and weigh out the PRO'S and CON'S first
2006-12-02 12:27:17 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, if his quads can distract him. Then the next woman who flirts with him will be in the sack quicker than you can say The DaVinci Code!
2006-12-02 12:25:34 · answer #6 · answered by James B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not so sure you should dump him but i think you should talk to him about it and if he chooses that over you he overly doesn't love you then i would dump him for that reason.
2006-12-02 12:28:13 · answer #7 · answered by jay316-83 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are asking this question often you really should dump him because you are no longer happy with him.
2006-12-02 12:24:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm...he sounds like he can be a little bit of a jerk...umm...if u do...u have a good reason but if i were u, i would wait a little while longer to see if he has a pattern of canceling dates to do stupid stuff like that :]
hope i helped a little :p
2006-12-02 12:26:34 · answer #9 · answered by Shelby™ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
2006-12-02 12:24:18 · answer #10 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋