ok. so. im kinda confused. today me and my bf were supposed to see a movie. but he didnt go cause he wanted to ride his quads instead. + this wasnt even a chick flick it was a movie he wanted to see! i know i kinda sound selfish but shouldnt your boyfriend put you in front? and hes even told me he loves his bikes better than me. im sure he was kidding but, should i dump him?
2006-12-02 12:14:00 · 13 answers · asked by kizsescoco13 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he was there for you for every date, would you think he was a doormat nice guy?
Some women think this and by him turning you down he is preventing something that he thinks women think about men, don't worry here is something you can do.
Ignore him for a few days and have him chase you again, that's right stop chasing him and trust me he will chase you again. :)
2006-12-02 12:17:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you must not really like him if u wanna dump him over some movie he missed, if thats the case, you probably will never find a guy to stay with, this is advice coming from a guy, we tend to get distracted easily and do screw up sometimes....well...constantly, but you shouldnt get all down, take it as an advantage. maybe you could both go quad ridin, it will give you a chance to be together and he will take it as a good thing that your also interested in what he likes. this will give you an excuse to say he owes you one.
2006-12-02 20:18:49 · answer #2 · answered by alton956 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes not kidding hun. And if he already told you you guys were going, but bailed last minute instead than that sucks. Especially for something that he could have done at any other time after.
I wouldnt really pay too much more attention if he is going to act that way. He should have had a better reason to not go.
2006-12-02 20:19:26 · answer #3 · answered by bluestar_dreamsx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys would normally drop everything for their girl, but sometimes, there's just those moments where you want to do something else. What he just done is pretty irresponsible, but you should wait and see if he really loves you before coming to a conclusion.
2006-12-02 20:18:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
um..yes! about the quads thing a good bf wouldnt even joke about that and about the movie thats such a jerky thing for him to do! def. dump him!
2006-12-02 20:19:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just dont bother about him for sometime, get busy with something for good. Let him feel for what he did if he really misses you! But dont ever ask him, that "do you really care 4 me?" and all those..
I am sure if he is caring he will get back to u and start being more affectionate to u.
2006-12-02 20:21:42 · answer #6 · answered by cuteguy83_4u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think what you should do is make a list of all the good timmes you have had together all the nice things hes done and just in general good thing and a list of bad times bad things hes done or said or just in general bad things and which ever thers mre of decide from there
2006-12-02 20:18:43 · answer #7 · answered by jessi h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should dump him cuz hes not treatin you right he needs to pend time with you.just tell him that your tired of being pushed away and put on hold.cuz what you really want is some one to be there with you
2006-12-02 20:20:00 · answer #8 · answered by john cena lover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are asking this question, it is clear that you do not love him enough to put up with him. No reason why you should stay with him if you do not love him.
2006-12-02 20:17:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him, end buy a bike.
2006-12-02 20:21:28 · answer #10 · answered by lazy_marius 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋