My b/f and I have gotten into far too many arguments lately. At first, I was breaking up with him because I found out that he was flirting with some girls and and sometimes being dishonest. And to be completely honest myslef, I would leave because I thought he wasn't the man for me. Now, he has been so distant, lucrative about everything and lacks interest. For the past month, I have been begging him to do things. He broke-up with me last week, but has contacted me the last five days telling me how much he loves me and just wants me to trust him. To make matters more strange, he told me on Thursday that he wanted to hang out today and, now that I have opened-up again, he has decided that he doesn't want to. What should I do? ...I know I committed some mistakes, but I have always been there for him.
2006-12-02 12:09:28 · 10 answers · asked by sendwad 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are already questioning yourself. You seem to have made the right decisions and you are instinctively reacting to his treatment of you. The thing is that men like this can turn it around on you as if you were the one that screwed up. If he does this now what would he do if he were married to you? Get some self-respect and be confident.
2006-12-02 12:16:11 · answer #1 · answered by e_piphany214 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you really want to know don't you. he is going to keep doing this to you because you are gullible. and you need to leave him alone. so he won't hurt you again. find someone who's going to love you and not play games with your heart. good luck.
2006-12-02 12:13:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't make yourself available to him......make plans with girls and stick to those plans, do not cancel anything because he wants to hang out. he will realize that he is an ***, and that you have another life besides him. guys get bored when us girls make our selves too available, and we all tend to do it when we really like someone, but stop doing it. maake him chase you and live your life without him,
2006-12-02 12:12:40 · answer #3 · answered by Beautiful disaster 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about him. If you were doubting the relationship in the first place, then you already know its not right.
2006-12-02 12:15:00 · answer #4 · answered by missie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's playing games with you. I would tell him to stop or you're walking. If he doesn't, move on and don't look back.
2006-12-02 12:12:29 · answer #5 · answered by mikah_smiles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm sounds like he's no good... try telling him how you feel face to face first. if he still acts like a jackass then move on
2006-12-02 12:13:44 · answer #6 · answered by Tommyb 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You sound miserable. It's time to move on.
2006-12-02 12:13:49 · answer #7 · answered by blastabuelliac 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to figure out what he wants, and what you want.
2006-12-02 12:13:41 · answer #8 · answered by SRAWRRR 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just dump him he is not the right person for you
2006-12-02 12:43:51 · answer #9 · answered by dashing_afridi_7 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that dude is playing with your heart ( from wat u described. cause he just wants to pass time. chances are as soon as he finds another girl he will leave you.
i am a man so i know wat he is doing.
2006-12-02 12:12:40 · answer #10 · answered by A tru baller 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋