Okay I have this boyfriend right and i like him a lot. I would say love but we've only been going out 3 months and i don't wanna be creepy obsessive. anyway i met this guy from another town who is super sweet and cute and i don't know whether i like him or what. I have no idea who i like more or if i even like both of them. I need help. what do i do and how do i figure out which guy i like the most??? HELP!!
2006-12-02 11:59:36 · 11 answers · asked by missycowrocker 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you do not have a true heart for your" boyfriend". my best advice is to stop seeing both of them and just be friends. someone is going to have their heart broken,
2006-12-02 12:05:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are faced with the desire to be "greedy". How would you want your steady boyfriend to deal with the same situation if a cute girl from another town came around, and you were the person who he was contemplating dumping for another girl? It would be an immature and cold hearted decision for you to go chasing someone else. Remember, that "what comes around, goes around", when you least expect it. Also, don't start making excuses like you already have, e.g., "we've only been going out for 3 months, or that you don't want to be "obsessive". It sounds like you have already got one foot out of the door. The "grass is not always greener on the other side".
2006-12-02 12:24:16 · answer #2 · answered by macfifty06 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think you like your current boyfriend enough to keep your eyes off other guys. And you wouldnt know if you like the new guy unless a similar situation happens. If you really love someone, then he would be the only man you're interested in.
2006-12-02 12:02:12 · answer #3 · answered by bangles121 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First step is growing up, you sound very young not being able to decide. Keep the boyfriend, or let him go if you are not ready to be commited to someone who cares about you. There are tons of guys out there. But you are already with someone who cares about you.Not just looks. I'm not trying to be rude,just honest.
2006-12-02 12:11:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm..you are probobly going to have to fuigure that one out yourself. Look at both of their values. Which one could you picture yourself with in 80 years? Get off Yahoo answers, and think about it for a while.
2006-12-02 12:03:51 · answer #5 · answered by wormwoodkid 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Answer this question which guy makes you happier and feel butterflies and tingly around him? That's the guy you should be with.
2006-12-02 12:03:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
how seious are you and bf ?? ask the other gut out, if you are not too serious. if you are serious, which it sounds like you are not, leave it alone. but you sound not-too-committed, and not in a serious relation or else you wouldn't like someone else.
2006-12-02 12:05:58 · answer #7 · answered by happyday to you 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
put one of em in ya pocket.for a back up
2006-12-02 12:03:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Please don't complicate your life, then again finding true love comes with some risks, so just follow your heart
2006-12-02 12:03:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
stay away. you are messing with fire and you might get burned
2006-12-02 12:02:00 · answer #10 · answered by Bobby G 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋