okay. so. I dated this guy like a million times and we would break up and go back out continously, but i couldn't help but LOVE him. we finnaly broke up.. and didn't get back together.. after about 7 mnths we started talkign again.. adn he asked me out. I ofcourse said yes becasue i still loved him.. adn i had waited and waited for him.. then i found out it was just a joke and he was just messing wiht me.. i was soo pissed! i hated him.. but yet i STILL loved him. After about we didnt talk for a while..
then i got a message saying he was so sorry and he wanted me back so bad and hoped i would forgive him. i asked why. he said becasue he realized he loved me and missed me.. and hated not being wiht me.. and ge said things would be differnt.. i believed him.. adn we started taling. i asked him out, and then like 2 days later. I just stopped having any kind of feelings for him! i don't even know why. i think it was cause i had waited and wiated.. that i just fell out of love. ya know?
2006-12-02 11:57:42 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
okay. they cut me off.
so then.. i broke up wiht himm..and of course he is gonna hate me after just 2 days earlier i had said that i loved him and i was sooo happy we were together and all this stuff.. and now he hates me adn won't talk to me.. and now i have another bf. but i want to brek up wiht himm.. [becaue we have nothing in common] and now i can't stop thinking about my ex.. i really love him.. and i can't tell him or he'll think im insane and a crazy *****.. [sorry for the language]... please help me.. i'm sorry it was soo long..
just to ask for a simple question.
what should/can i do? i want him back.. becasue i love him.. so much..
oh. and I'm 14. and NO that is not TO YOUNg to be in love. ever heard the saying 'young and inlove' well its real. i love him. and i mean it.. this isnt just some little crush that will go away over time.. i love him. and i want him back.i hate feeling so stupid for letting him go, and and loving him wihtout being loved back...
2006-12-02 12:03:49 · update #1
I would take the bit of him saying he wanted to get back with you and then laugh at you saying he was messing with you as a real signal of what type of guy this realy is.
he is a player..a user..and somewhat very cruel inside. It is obviously up to you what to do..but if it were me..I would walk farrr..farrrr away from him..and never turn back.
2006-12-02 12:03:05 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you didn't do a horrible mistake. Someone who plays that kind of cruel joke....doesn't deserve a second chance. You didn't fall out of love, it was that cruel joke of him wanting to be dating you again that made you mad, and you finally got over him.
2006-12-02 20:01:49 · answer #2 · answered by Kimmi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on, you are all playing too many games, there will be other oppurtunities to go out with people in your life,, go see some sites,, forget having a boyfriend,, live alittle
2006-12-02 20:01:35 · answer #3 · answered by rich2481 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you only started likeing him agien because you knew you couldnt have him, and once you had him, there was nothing to chase or think about as much. you know??? and its good you broke up with him, c other people! :)
2006-12-02 20:06:47 · answer #4 · answered by bria<3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u know how boys can be these days and if it was meant to be i think ya'll would be together now. well they never know what they got until they leave them
2006-12-02 20:06:12 · answer #5 · answered by Shae Shae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds to me like you just want what you cant have, and as soon as you get what you want, you don't want it anymore.. you should make up your mind what you want and then go after it.. or if you don't want to be with him, quit stringing him along..
2006-12-02 20:01:32 · answer #6 · answered by Byakuya 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, have lots of sex with random men to help bury his memory
2006-12-02 20:00:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on.
2006-12-02 19:59:30 · answer #8 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should be treated better than that. U realized that their wasn't as big a connection their as you thought.
2006-12-02 20:00:43 · answer #9 · answered by Bobby G 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
umm it wasn't love to begin with.
2006-12-02 20:01:06 · answer #10 · answered by ♥ Becky ♥ 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋