hey is okey if i call my guy because we ahd a fight
so di i call first or should he call firts.
one of his family nmember has recently passed away and u know what we got in to a fight i don't know if i should call first or i should wait.
plz help
2006-12-02 11:49:13 · 16 answers · asked by Hally berry 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you are calling to make amends and apologize by all means call. When it comes to a relationship there is no room for.. "rules" on "who should call first" and all that other nonsense..
2006-12-02 11:51:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead and take the iniciative in doing so. Tell him why should you guys still be in a fight when this fight you had happened yesterday. It's part of the past and not worth staying in fight. Hope this helps.
2006-12-02 19:53:40 · answer #2 · answered by RousseSantini 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In this situation, i guess you should call. In normal situations, if the guy is worth it then it doesnt matter if u call or he calls. You should care enough for your relationship to believe that its not worth fighting one minute and that you would rather be happy together. That is if he feels the same way.
2006-12-02 19:52:57 · answer #3 · answered by bangles121 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him. He's going through a tough time and he needs all the friends he can get.
If you wait for him to call and he waits for you to call, this problem will NEVER get solved and will just sit in between you guys like a bad smell. Call him, fix it and help him through this.
Good luck!
2006-12-02 19:51:21 · answer #4 · answered by mikah_smiles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's probably going through a rough time. Call him and let him know you want to be there for him. If it's a really serious argument you can hash it out later if you need to.
2006-12-02 19:52:55 · answer #5 · answered by jblonde 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should call because guys are bad at appologizing. Once you break the ice he should open up.
You might have to blame yourself for certain things even if they weren't your fault just to make him happy but that's how guys are.
2006-12-02 19:52:51 · answer #6 · answered by jmerds003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on whose fault it was. Definitely call and let him know you that you are sorry such and such passed and if he wants to talk you're there for him. If its your fault go ahead and apoligize if not, get off the phone with him and wait for him to call you back.
2006-12-02 19:54:35 · answer #7 · answered by paigeamj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him some time...maybe a week or so.
whatever the fight was about let him know you don't want to lose him over something silly and if its worth it..it will work out.
2006-12-02 19:51:20 · answer #8 · answered by celina m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should at least call to show your respect/send your condolences. Whatever you got into it about can be discussed later. RIght now he needs you.
2006-12-02 19:52:39 · answer #9 · answered by Sweet_Sassy_Scorpio 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should definitly help. Even if you're in a fight you'd think he'd want your support!
2006-12-02 19:51:35 · answer #10 · answered by justalilcrazzi66 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋