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When you say you want a nice guy, you really mean you want somebody who is an asshole to everybody else but you!

For instance somebody who can stand up for thereself, even with you but knows how to thrill you and give you a good time?

2006-12-02 11:47:22 · 6 answers · asked by crazyinsane0000 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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Yes, pretty true. But he can't beat up other people or act uncivilized. No no no!

2006-12-02 11:54:57 · answer #1 · answered by Black 4 · 0 0

Since when is standing up for yourself being an asshole?

And no, we want someone who's a nice guy to everyone. If a guy treats you like an absolute princess during the date, yet is rude to a waiter or anyone else ... there's no second date for a reason. How he treats other people is how he will treat you later in life.

2006-12-02 20:00:53 · answer #2 · answered by Imperfect 4 · 0 0

The thing about some men is that they can be really nice at the start of the relationship and then change into an asshole later, that's why so many relationships end.

2006-12-02 19:58:34 · answer #3 · answered by Tammy848 2 · 0 0

Only psycho women want that. It's actually quite rare to see a woman with a guy like that...and almost never unless there is something really wrong with the woman.

However, this isn't the real issue. Many men who are unsuccessful with women make up various explanations in their head for why this is so. One of the popular ones is that women like assholes but not nice guys (of course, they always define themselves as "nice" no matter how big of a shitheel they are). This has no basis in their observation or experience but rather is just something they made up in their head. But, they act like it is true.

Meanwhile, in their day to day lives they pass women who are absolutely dripping in their panties for them (roughly 1 woman out of a hundred you passt on the street is like this). Only they are too stupid to even notice. These poor woman see them and wonder what the hell is wrong with themselves that the guy they want doesn't even know she exists.

Shame on you for letting that happen and indulging in such a bullshit excuse that, quite frankly, borders close to hatred and bigotry towards women. What the hell is the matter with you.

Instead, start paying attention to what the hell is going on around you. The signs are all there for what is REALLY going on if only you can stop fantasizing about bullshit long enough to notice.

Here is a simple exercise that will really demonstrate in dramatic fashion what I'm talking about. For the next week or so, every time you pass a woman on the street, look her directly in the eyes and don't look away until you pass her. PAY ATTENTION to her body language and facial expression. Since this is biologically ingrained behavior, it is near universal to understand so explanation is not really necessary.

Here is what you are going to find. About 10 percent of women are going to LOATHE you. Who gives a **** about these. Forget about them. Around 80% of women will simply ignore you. You mean nothing to them except background noise. You might get signs of curiosity as most men are so beaten down they don't look them in the eye (but that's another issue). Here is where it gets interesting. About one woman in ten is going to show obvious signs of interest in you. That's great. But it takes some degree of skill to bring them into your life.

But what you are looking for is the one woman in a hundred. This one will take you by surprise. What you are going to see is an almost feral hunger for you. She will look like she just might leap across the space between you and attack you. Congratulations. You just started to see things as they really are, rather than as the stupidity you were spouting earlier.

Understand a few things. You are regularly coming into contact with women like this all the time. Not every day. But, only a few days ever goes by in a normal person's life before you pass one of these women. And you've been wasting those hundreds and hundreds of chances.

Exploiting this situation is simple. Train yourself to do this and you will be amply rewarded as few skills in life will. In the split second you notice that feral look on her face, IMMEDIATELY make a beeline straight toward her. Walk right up to her. Open your mouth and say the following. Wow. I really like you. I just had to meet you. Extend your hand if you think that's polite. Guess what. You just set the stage for an explosive situation. As long as you aren't a jerk and talk to her like a normal person, you are probably going to have sex with this woman within the next day or so.

Still think women are attracted to assholes?

2006-12-02 20:10:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Nope. Got an Ahole of my own. If I say "nice guy" I mean it. I don't depend on anyone to thrill me or give me a good time. That's my own job.

2006-12-02 20:01:26 · answer #5 · answered by sexmagnet 6 · 0 0

The only thing true about women who say.. "I just want a nice guy" is.. .it really means nothing because its too brawd of a statement to mean anything....

2006-12-02 19:54:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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