sometimes i wish i was anorexic just so i could be thin and everybody would shut up and leave me alone!! Is that wrong of me to say?
2006-12-02 11:32:04 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
i have the same problem. It's okay to feel this way, as long as it doesn't get out of hand and you actually do it. That would be messed up to change your body just so others will leave you alone. I know it's easier said than done, but you have to love yourself, all of you and so should the people who love you(which I'm sure there is a bunch:)
2006-12-04 15:50:34 · answer #1 · answered by ♡StarGirl♡ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure I totally understand, but I get the impression that other people are bothering you about your weight. I'm sorry your feelings are hurt; chances are that many of the people who have been saying things to you are concerned for your health. And, you're a valuable person, so your health is worthwhile.
I venture to guess that the reason why some of these people's comments bother you so much is that you, too, are concerned about your weight. Again, I'm sorry that you don't like your weight and that you're feeling bad. The one sure-fire way to change that is to do something about it. I encourage you to talk to a doctor, nutritionist, and/or personal trainer who can help you get the healthiest body possible. When you know that you're healthy, no matter what you look like, people's comments won't bother you.
And the previous answerer is correct: anorexics don't usually need anyone else to help them feel bad about their bodies. So that would really not be a solution to your problem.
2006-12-03 01:02:19 · answer #2 · answered by drshorty 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes it is. You have to love yourself for who you are and what you look like. Why do you have to be anorexic to be thin. If you really want it that bad then WORK for it! Exercise, eat right! If you want something bad enough there should be nothing that can stand in your way!
Anyhow anorexic isn't pretty. It's disgusting.
Oh....and another thing. Just remember that people bother you only as much as you let them.
2006-12-02 19:37:55 · answer #3 · answered by msnite1969 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
People that are anorexic don't appreciate their bodies no matter how unhealthy they become. Their bodies are never thin "enough."
When people get to be that thin, trust me, people notice. I've seen anorexic girls that at my school that recently got out of rehab or are going through rehab. and they gather a lot of attention on the buses and walking on the street.
2006-12-02 21:46:59 · answer #4 · answered by bansri47 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No honey that is not wrong to say. I don't know why some people take so much enjoyment from hurting others. It seems like they have hurt your self esteem. Everyday just look into the mirror and find something nice to say about yourself. When you say it enough you'll begin to love yourself and that is the first step to not caring what these people say. Good luck honey. YOU GO GIRL!!!!!!!!
2006-12-02 19:36:53 · answer #5 · answered by Pearl 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i love your name, first and foremost! my name is svetlana, but people call me lana, as well. :-D
now then...why not wish you were thin and healthy, instead? i mean, if you're going to go to the trouble of wishing, wish for something good. why wish to be anorexic? it's a dangerous habit.
and yes, it's wrong of you to say. why would you wish something so terrible on yourself, anyway? if you really want to shut those meanies up, provided you want to lose weight for YOU and not for them, then join a health club, eat a healthful balanced diet, and screw the meanies. don't let them get to you. it's not worth it. best put your energy toward good.
good luck!
2006-12-02 20:04:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's not wrong of you to say but a true anorexic is sick and doesn't look good either. Why trade one problem for a bigger one.
2006-12-02 19:36:04 · answer #7 · answered by neptune 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People will never shut up and leave you alone. No matter what you do or who you are, people will feel free to point it out.
2006-12-02 19:39:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No its not wrong of u to say, i have the same problem, either my family says Oh ur too fat loose weigth or Oh ur to skinny gain some weigth, all my life my weigth has gone up and down up and down i hate it, when i get fat i GET FAT when i loose weigth i LOSE weigth and a lot so, i dont know what iam i dont know what this is called but i know its something bad and i hate it.
2006-12-02 19:35:50 · answer #9 · answered by Stel 1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People are so rude. For some reason being rude to overweight people is acceptable in our society. Do your best to love yourself no matter what horrible things people say to you.
2006-12-03 01:46:40 · answer #10 · answered by DeborahDel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋