I HAVE BEEN DATING THIS GUY FOR 8 MONTHS AND HAVE LIVED WITH HIM FOR 6 MONTHS. WE BROKE UP LAST WEEK. I TOLD HIM THAT HE COULD STAY UNTIL HE COULD GET INTO HIS OWN PLACE ON THE FIRST. BUT NOW HE IS BEING A JERK! I DON'T CARE IF HE IS A JERK TO ME, I COULD CARE ELSE. BUT HE IS BEING A JERK TO MY KIDS. BEFOR LAST WEEK HE LOVED MY KIDS. WHAT DO I DO? MY KIDS DIDN'T DO ANYTHING WRONG.
2006-12-02 11:02:07 · 12 answers · asked by Kelli A 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
kick him out, tell him to find someone else to live with or for him to get his own place. any guy who is a jerk to kids is not worth living with, especially if you have kids in the house.
2006-12-02 11:05:21 · answer #1 · answered by Davy D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you serious of the breakup? If yes is the answer get him out asap or help to look for a place as he may not want to leave and continue to be a jerk to the kids. Anyway he sounds kinda childish, good riddance. Cheers!
2006-12-02 19:09:33 · answer #2 · answered by willibwa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First tell him be nice or get out, but make sure you have someone you know who will back you up just in case things get ugly, better safe than sorry. If he still being a jerk then kick him out right away. If he doesn't, call police and put a restraining order on him. It time to get tough on him, don't back down.
2006-12-02 19:09:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him straight out just because you broke up you were not going to be a ***** and have him on the street,you allowed him to stay out of the goodness of your heart.
He has the problem with you not the kids. as they are your kids and they come first and will not be going through this with him as they do not need to.
So he can either appricate that he has a place to stay and clean up his act or get the hell out
2006-12-02 19:21:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to get the **** out of your house he can find a different place to stay plus your kids are way more important.
2006-12-02 19:07:20 · answer #5 · answered by Alex K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that if he is gonna act that way in the room then you will kick him out (If its like your place) otherwise talk to him. tell him that your kids have nothing to do with you two so he should only talk to you and be mad at you if anything.
2006-12-02 19:06:28 · answer #6 · answered by AdrianAP 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chicks with kids shouldnt date anyone. That is why they make vibrators!
2006-12-02 19:10:11 · answer #7 · answered by The Tr@mp Collector 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kick his *** out and call the cops if he wont leave if hes on the lease your screwed
2006-12-02 19:36:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him he needs to go, he is making the most of your generous side, when he comes in one day tell him that you need him to go, if he makes a fuss call the police....
2006-12-02 19:06:30 · answer #9 · answered by dan.harris9 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
girl you gotta move out kids come first.... always, before he harm them.
2006-12-02 19:06:41 · answer #10 · answered by Abner R 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋