my boyfriend and i broke up three months ago, he tells me he's fallen out of love with me, so i say fair enough! so why is he still ringing me? iv told him its too hard for us to remain friends(because i still love him), yet he's still ringing and telling me he's confused?since our split he has slept with a stranger and kissed a number of girls, cut off my phone and called me a fat, ugly discusting *****. why is he ringing?
2006-12-02 10:58:38 · 14 answers · asked by * *sUnShINe GiRl* * 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we were together for 3 years. Im 21 and he's 23 we split up because he kissed a girl behind my back and he said if he could do that then he couldnt be in love with me. He is usually a very moral kind of guy,and every1 is very shocked at his behaviour. he would hav done anything for me.we had a very deep,intense relationship so im really confused, he says he misses me and that he loves me but hes not IN love with me. why is he stil ringing? does he want me back?
2006-12-02 11:26:14 · update #1
p.s he just rang and sed that he misses me and he wants things to be like thet were!!?
p.p.s im not a total mentalist being up at this time, im writing essays!!!
2006-12-02 15:17:17 · update #2
Only he knows that but do yourself a favour and change your number xx
2006-12-02 11:00:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ima keep it real with you sweetie, you should cut all ties with him and move on. Now I understand you may still love him in a sense and yes I know it's hard to remain friends after that, but that's going to take some time to get over (that's normal), but put your focus on something other than him and you'll start to forget about him. And if I were you I'd get a new phone number and make it unlisted so he can't find it and how is he confused? and he's the one that said he has fallen out of love with you?please!!! you deserve better than him and he has no right to call you out of your name just because you don't want to be his doormat. Did he even give a reason for falling out of love with you? if he were mature he would come to you and y'all would sit down and he would try to explain the reason why, but he's a little boy he's not through playing yet so F**k him it's his loss, not yours sweetheart.
2006-12-02 19:30:27 · answer #2 · answered by Ms. Love hurts 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he wants to control you and make sure you are still there for him if he changes his mind he moved on but he knows you love him and he thinks you will take him back if he asks you to so he calls and messes with your head and then if he See's that there is no one out there better for the time being he will come crawling back or at least try I would change my phone # and move on with my life he's a loser
2006-12-02 19:03:50 · answer #3 · answered by charlie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi!
He wants his cake and eat it!
If I were you I'd get a new phone!
You've obviously still got a hold on him and you've got under his skin!
He sounds like (for want of a better word!) a bit of a slag!!
You SO deserve better.
Ignore his calls and go out there and catch yourself a REAL man girl!!
2006-12-02 19:04:57 · answer #4 · answered by Moofie's Mom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is thinking he is the dog with 10 dic*s. How dare he speak to you like that! What a coc*!
Don't pick up the phone and waste your breathe on him! Go out with your friends lots and doing fun things. You'll soon forget about him!
2006-12-02 19:05:28 · answer #5 · answered by treacle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes he just dont want you to be with anyone else and he SWORE at you and thats talking dirty to a women and has no respect for you first he says he fallen out of you, left you , and rings you on purpuse seeing other girls, swearing at you,you must ignore him at think that he just nothing you should get someone much better if you want better
2006-12-02 19:11:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
need to advise us what the argument was about, it can go either way,
he may be a p*ss head and you had to get rid of him so he`s being a touch unfriendly and a pain in the ***.
or you screwed his head up somewhat,
more info. is deffo required,
but please move on (if its your mobile number change it, otherwise get call no. collection so you can see the no. dialing you) karma works out always.
2006-12-02 19:09:20 · answer #7 · answered by fluxpattern® 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
needs a 5hag or feels guilty - based on your "he has morals" comment, he probably feels guilty about hurting you.
A mate of mine split from his wife who he didnt love anymore - and he was gutted about it because of the guilt, in fact he went back to her for a while.
2006-12-02 19:32:20 · answer #8 · answered by Im a killer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ditch him and move on there is alot of fun to be had out there go and get yourself some youll soon get over him. change your number or just dont answer him
2006-12-02 19:17:09 · answer #9 · answered by louci2shoes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he's a control freak and a total bastard.
change your number as things will only get worse.
been there, seen it, done it. cut all ties before things get even worse.
2006-12-02 19:07:35 · answer #10 · answered by KU 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋