okay. so there's this boy that i really like @ school. and well, we have been texting each other a lot lately and "flirting" at school and what not. a few weeks ago i decided to tell him how i felt about him (which i thought was the more "mature" thing to do, since we are in high school now) and he says that "yea, we'll stay good friends now but I just want to be silly me right now". that was about 3 weeks ago. now, i'm getting a little frustrated and confused because he also flirts with other girls in front of me and usually i'm the one texting him first all the time. should i continue to text him and wait on him until he is ready or just move on.
2006-12-02 10:41:08 · 17 answers · asked by preppy*cheerleader09 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not 15.. and you don't need a 15 yr olds opinion..... BUT if you want this kid to notice you ..... IGNORE him... he will hate it and wonder why you are ignoring him. THEN he will start coming to you.. He is playing a game with you... he knows how you feel and that's why he is flirting with other girls in front of you... IGNORE him if you want him
2006-12-02 10:45:03 · answer #1 · answered by nease174 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all... love the name!!! Now, anyways... you should definately beat him at his own game, like don't text him until he texts you and flirt with other guys at school and don't even talk to him until he comes up to you... this might be kinda hard but trust me if he really likes you, he'll text you, and talk to you more if not then.... youre way too good for him anyways!!! GoOd LuCkâ¥
2006-12-02 18:46:34 · answer #2 · answered by ♥Olivia 69♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh honey, play his game- but play it betta! :D hes doesnt want a relationship right now, and you do, theres your problem, go find someone you can have a relationship with (even if you dont like them as much as the other guy) find someone you like, and are interested in, and take it from there, the other guy will come to you ((wouldnt hurt to make sure ur always with the other guy in front of him *wink wink* :D ))
& no stop textin him first, and if he text you, dont text back, for every like 5 he sends u, send back 1 but dont do it right away, let him wait and squirm :D
oh yeah revenge *evil laugh*
2006-12-02 18:45:07 · answer #3 · answered by Xavier's Mommy ツ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me say this; from what he was saying to you at that time, he didn't want to take the relationship to another level as you probably hoped and couldn't deal wtih what you told him; I think you should move on; if you see him, wave and say hello, but remember he ain't the only fish out there hon. Peace.
2006-12-02 18:45:33 · answer #4 · answered by savvyladydiamond 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He`s single, he can flirt with other girls. If he didn`t want to be with you then, it was because he just wants to be single. He might like you and everything, but he doesn`t want to be tied down. You can`t be completely obvious that him flirting with other girls bothers you, otherwise he might get annoyed and won`t like you at all.
2006-12-02 18:45:05 · answer #5 · answered by SRAWRRR 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
iam not a 15 year old girl,iam a man,but maybe he hasnt gotten the idea just how you feel about him yet.what you 2 need to do is just the 2 of you go out and sit down and talk things out and both of you lay your cards on the table.
2006-12-02 18:47:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's obviously a jerk..if he is flirting with other girls especially in front of u then u can tell he doesnt really tries to make u fall in love with him.he doesnt deserves u.stop texting him until he does that
2006-12-02 18:45:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should move on, but still be his friend.It sounds to me like he is not ready for a relationship and you need to find someone who is. Perhaps he will mature and change his mind, perhaps not. But you can't wait on him forever. Move on and if it was meant to happen, he will come back for you.
2006-12-02 18:49:03 · answer #8 · answered by x_ice_artist_x 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would wait for him, dont hold on to him so much flirt with other guys make HIM text you FIRST but don't do anything STUPID just to make him jealous...i have friends that do that and it makes you look really childish...if he doesnt want to be mature than you need to stop liking him...he's wasting your time...
2006-12-02 18:44:56 · answer #9 · answered by B3. 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ok i'm not a girl but, if a guy is using words like "silly". I'm thinking maybe he's not into girls.
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2006-12-02 18:45:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋