i asked this girl on wed to go out this weekend and it was her idea to go see stranger then fiction. on friday she said she still wanted to go and gave me her cell number without me asking and i told her id text her today to see if she wanted to go.
i texted her at like 3 and at 5 she texted me back saying, sorry she couldnt go cause her mom wanted her to go shopping.
i texted her back and said ok see you.
should i text her again right now and say something like "would you be able to go another time"?
Or what should i say?
Or should i just wait until monday and she what she does cause i dont know if she stood me up or really had to go.
girls what should i do and say?
Thanks
2006-12-02 10:31:47 · 16 answers · asked by actdlr 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Talk to her Monday. Ask her if she had fun shopping and if you would like to reschedule the date. Be cool baby, be cool.
2006-12-02 10:34:23 · answer #1 · answered by Thera 9 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you already texted her 3 times, i think its enough for the day. Wait for monday, and c what happens over the weekend. If she gave u her number without u havin asked her for it, she obviously has some interest in you. So try not to worry so much, she might really have been busy and just couldnt got. Or she could of had second thoughts about the whole thing, and decided to forget about it all. But for now, there is no clear answer. Ur gonna have 2wait and c what she does. If she talks to u over the weekend, then she's still interested in you. If not, give it one more shot (like ONE message) and c what happens!
Good Luck!
ps: Try to b relaxed and chill, you dont want 2 look desperate!
2006-12-02 18:38:39 · answer #2 · answered by Bisouxxx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she did have to do stuff with her mom.
Stop...debating whether she likes you or not, thats
going to drive you insane!
go hang out with some guy friends tonight then
call it a night.
Let her contact you next...your question will be answered
when she contacts you. She will want to make it up to
you. But dont go chasing and calling and texting----
hoping to get a response, that will be annoying for her
and she might think you have nothing better to do then
stalk her via texting etc. Give it some time. Now its her
turn to contact you. Just wait it out. Go out- have some fun
and call it a night.
If you do contact her again, wait until Monday. Dont waste
your time if she does not show interest.
Goodluck
2006-12-02 18:46:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, if you really want to go out with her, text her with a follow up question to see if she's free any other time this weekend or next weekend or WHATEVER.
If she claims to have a full calendar all the time, then she's probably just nicely telling you that she doesn't want to go to the movies after all.
But it makes total sense for her to be busy with shopping this weekend as it's getting really close to Christmas.
2006-12-02 18:37:17 · answer #4 · answered by Imperfect 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Id wait it out until next weekend and casually text her to see if shes up for doing anything...that seems the most natural thing to do.
2006-12-02 18:47:01 · answer #5 · answered by mwah ha haha ha ha ha haaa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She said yes in the first place then made an excuse to not go... Yes should mean we have a date... You've been had and dumped... Do not call her or text her... she is a player and you've been played.. find someone else... she is not interested....
She probably made plans to go with someone else tonight even tho she accepted your date`````Forget her bud... she is not for you.. Do not do running after her, she dissed you and that is it....You;ll look like a loser if you try to call her....
2006-12-02 18:39:07 · answer #6 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't send her the message, you don't want to seem to desperate. Monday, don't ignore her but see if she talks to you and says anything about rescheduling the date. Don't give up hope yet. You never know, maybe she actually did have to go shopping with her mom.
2006-12-02 18:39:19 · answer #7 · answered by PHAT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her on Monday if you can wait. I used to completely chicken out and cancel on guys when I was young. I never wanted to hurt anybody, I just was too scared! Maybe start with something easier, like hanging out at her house?
2006-12-02 18:41:30 · answer #8 · answered by StephanieM. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she was smart and likes you, she would have told you another time. but she definetly likes you since she gave you her number w/out you asking. so she must have not been thinkin. ask her again near the middle of the week (so you dont sound desperate) and say "hey, so are you free this weekend?"
2006-12-02 18:46:16 · answer #9 · answered by kt! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should text her... Just say something normal like heyy wats up. If she gave you her cell number and told you she wanted to go then she probably wasnt standing you up!
2006-12-02 18:36:27 · answer #10 · answered by XxBrwnEydCutieXx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋