I have this ex who won't leave me alone. He is 18. I was his first real girlfriend and he used to be normal but after I dumped him a couple months ago he just won't leave me alone. He is so sure that he is in love with me. He follows me, he is always calling and IMing me and sending me messages. He won't stop. I got my father involved and he STILL wont stop. A week ago he was going to kill himself because I don't love him and I had to talk him out of it and call his mother in the middle of the night to get him to stop. I can't stand this anymore. It's too much stress for a 16 yr old. Can someone please help me?
2006-12-02 10:28:02 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Have the police pay him a "visit" be careful
try not to be alone....ever.
2006-12-02 10:31:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you have to go to the police,get a restraining order.dont never go out by yourself ,always have somebody with you. if he try to kill himself ,you dont know what he can do to you so be careful and good luck i hope you the best.
2006-12-02 10:41:49 · answer #2 · answered by kency 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him that you'll go back with him at the end of the school year but you dont you just be leading him on and he might stop stalking you because he'll get tired of waiting for you to go with him and eventually leave you alone
2006-12-02 10:35:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell teh stalker you have aids HIV herpies cancer proned to vomit at randomn times trigger happy with guns has a child and likes to see guys doing eachother.. sounds easy?
2006-12-02 10:32:16 · answer #4 · answered by AdrianAP 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
change you cell number,call the police, tell you big brother o0r father. one of the last two will solve the problem the fastest.
2006-12-02 10:35:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
the next time don't talk to him when he makes threats just call the authorities and have them check in on him...sounds cold but safer for you
2006-12-02 10:35:00 · answer #6 · answered by truegeminismile 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think this kid needs help.At first iwas going to say something funny >but never mind
2006-12-02 10:33:11 · answer #7 · answered by rst_rivera 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call the police
2006-12-02 10:33:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a restraining order
2006-12-02 10:35:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-23 13:15:33 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋