Neva had a girlfriend. Dont have much of a life. help?

Question

lol i have never had a g/f and as for my social life its quite small in comparison. I'm homeschooled and my parrents won't change their mind. I have never had a kiss gone on a date or even a hugfrom a girl. I'm truly a pitiful guy lol.I get told i have a great sense of humor and im cute and all the other stuff even some girls i have talked to say im nearly perfect. But those are only pple i have known online so i don't really know. I am talkative and feel bored all the time and games and other things other then talking just bore me..

I'm 16 and live in a town of about 35 thousand where alot of the kids hang out at their house and not at target. All i really want at this point is a girl i can love.

I'm woundering how am i supposed to get more friends
what am i doing wrong that doesn't let me get a G/f.
what in a guy does a normal 16 yr girl like?
id like you to be honest with how pittiful my story sounds.

Be serious please and honest. Nothing stupid thx

Wasn't trying to make my parrens seems like the bad person i realized that i need to take a more active stand in the world then i do. all i was sayin is i've talked to them about letting me go to a public school adn they have told me no. sex basically is why.

And really not fretting over girls just most of my life revolves around them and i just want someone to love. not just be the one being nice to everyone. I've had a few problems with girls i liked in the past. and for me a small problem is really big.

and the last girl i liked basically started liking another guy. (this is in my church) and were 35k people. not big enuf for a mall. (i have a kinda depression problem when it comes to talking about my problems.the depression **** is another <3)

also i dont know exactly how to flirt.

Answer 1

Dont feel bad. Just dress up nice and go to the mall or somewhere where there are a lot of people. Then find a girl that looks liek you would like them and start a convo with them. Or jsut meet ANYONE so you can get ore friends. The more friends you have the better chance you have of meeting a good girl for you. GOOD LUCK!

Answer 2

I don't think it has anything to do with you that u dont have a g/f more to do with the fact that you have never really had the chance to meet any. your parents connot keep you in the house so maybe at the weekends why don't you join some clubs or something what goes on in your area, like leisure centers or something like that where you can meet people. Or even if you made some male friends first, where you could hang out with them that way meeting girls. You say you are talkative well that's a start get out there and get talking to people. Even find a part time job or something. All the best

Answer 3

Hi there. 1st off, I'll tell you, I'm a grown woman, have been married, kids, etc... lots of experience, and I'll answer your question with honesty and CONFIDENCE.{meaning you must trust these words} You, young man, are NOT pitiful in any way, shape or form. I remember very well being your age, and feeling certain 'problems' were "the end of the world", I promise you, they're not. I can't entirely agree with your folks, at your age, they should begin giving you more freedom and let you excersize the life skills and valuable lessons that I'm sure they taught you.{ remember, they love you and will always worry, and want to protect you!} As life goes on, you'll realize that the years you're living now, are a very short part of life. Check to see if there are any town run dances or other events. They are usually chaperoned, and your parents can also somehow be involved. Is there a YMCA, or boys n girls club? There has to be some kind of 'outlet' for teens. You sound so bummed out, and it makes ME sad, because I KNOW from experience that these thing iron themselves out. You sound like a great kid, and I know you'll be OK. And ALWAYS remember, you are NOT NOT pitiful! I wish you love and success!! ps{ a note to your parents, from a loving mother of two teenage sons, sincerely, you're doing you son a disservice, I know it's a scary world, but social interaction at their age is neccessary and valuable to his 'people skills' and mental and emotional health. There must be social events around your town that you can agree on and even be involved with. You must have been doing things good so far, he sounds like a really good kid, please help him not be so sad, he shouldn't need to be}

Answer 4

I am sure that you are fine. It is difficult to meet girls if you are not in school. Do you have a mall in your town? Sometimes they hang out there. Also, as you are 16, there is a light at the end of the tunnel. College. There are a lot of women at college. That is only 2 years away. You will be 18 then. Put your foot down that you are going. Don't worry about not having a gf yet you have plenty of time and there are lots of different kinds of women. I am sure there is one that will like you when you get the chance to meet one. Good luck!!!!!!

Answer 5

You've got your whole life ahead of you, and only a small part of it involves girls. Take your time, talk to your parents about your feelings, and let them know you are ready to start meeting people. Maybe in church, or at community events. Ask your folks if they have any friends / coworkers with kids your age. Go to the local high school when they have dances, etc.
Relax. Being inexperienced at your age is neither unusual nor problematic.

Answer 6

Well i would g start going to some group or club or gathering.It really helps with friends and stuff and there might even be a cute girl there!

Answer 7

yo dude this sux 4 u!! do u have guy friends? if u do u need to hang out with them as much as possible!! ur guy friends should help u!! when girls come around be yoself. when u find a girl that u like flirt with her and make alot of eye contact with her. she should start to like u. when u can tell that she likes u ask her out!!! GOOD LUCK

Answer 8

i like a tall guy
blond or black hair
tanned
really good eyecontact
your problem is you haven't met enough girls
try joining a club or going or a bar, you just need to meet more people
im 17 and already to me you sound like a nice guy it dosen't matter that you are totaly inexperienced just remember not to do what you parents have done to you to your kids ...its mean not letting them have a life

Answer 9

what am i doing wrong that doesn't let me get a G/f.

it aint you! its your parents!! nearly every kid has a g/f/b/f in school, i thik they should let you have a norm,al life and go to school meet people, make more friends hang out with them.

Answer 10

you're only 16 you have plenty of time. i didn't date anyone til i was 17, and i'm not unattractive. it'll happen you have to be patient and not look, that's when you find someone