I am meeting up with a girl tonight that I met on match.com. We are going to a pool hall and i was curious what might be the best stuff to talk about. I want to stand out, but I am not quite sure how. Should I try to kiss her on this first date?
2006-12-02 10:02:55 · 11 answers · asked by mbaran79 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
kiss her if it feels right and you two click, otherwise no. just talk to her like you would your friends that you've known for forever, comfortable and not forced. people can tell if you're talking out your butt or not. and relax!
2006-12-02 10:06:14 · answer #1 · answered by Lg 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me, if you want to stand out, just smile and act friendly and confident. The more you worry about "wowing" her, the more you'll probably just come across as fake and goofy. And you'll probably be able to tell whether she's ok with you kissing her. If you sense that she is, just be respectful about it....smile, move a little closer to her and say "is it ok if I kiss you?" Then if it is, move in for a nice, gentle kiss. Good luck ! First dates are so exciting.
BTW...I know I'm probably your mom's age, but trust me... we women all like the same stuff :)
2006-12-02 10:12:42 · answer #2 · answered by Schleppy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The gospel truth about meeting somebody and making an impression is to just be yourself. Do not fake anything you will become a fool. I love guys who are original. Stick to the basic and you will be the best.
2006-12-02 10:06:24 · answer #3 · answered by ALS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OH MY GOD I WENT ON A FIRST DATE LAST NIGHT FROM MATCH.COM!!!!!......just be yourself!! i had a great time! she wouldnt go out with you if she wasnt interested in the first place, thats the thing with those sites, you already know a little bit about that person so its a little easier....
good luck buddy!!!! :):):):)
2006-12-02 10:07:24 · answer #4 · answered by nonyerbusiness 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry how it's going to be.Just go with the flow.conversant with her learn about how shes like. Think of it as an interview (like hiring some one for a job)and see if you really like her or not. Kiss her if you feel the moment is right.
2006-12-02 10:17:53 · answer #5 · answered by Casper77mc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well don't plan it!! just go with the flow, if you like her and you feel chemistry then you could try to go for a kiss but don't try to force things otherwise nothing will happen.
There a lot of good stuff to talk about, ask her about her hobbies, interests, family, friends and so on.
Good luck!!
2006-12-02 10:08:38 · answer #6 · answered by Mexicana 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok its a first date sooo try to get know her, see if u guys like each other, & if the date goes good then yes give her a lil kiss......good luck & have fun
2006-12-02 10:05:51 · answer #7 · answered by ~i love my boys~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
y0u c0uld check 0ut her b00bz if she wears a l0w cut shirt. then talk ab0ut h0w h0t she is and definitely kiss her. if she d0n't kiss g00d, y0u're 0ut 0f there!
2006-12-02 10:05:42 · answer #8 · answered by sexypunkgrrrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask questions that will allow her to do all the talking and make sure to listen.
2006-12-02 10:07:18 · answer #9 · answered by wonderin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep your hands to yourself.
2006-12-02 10:05:07 · answer #10 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋