Yesterday I was sitting in my car early in the morning studying for a test for grad school since the building was not opened yet. A chick rolls up in her BMW and parked a few spots from me. She gets out and walks towards my car to ask me a question so I rolled down my window. We ended up taking for a bit and she asks me if I want to take a walk with her to relieve some stress. Anyways we ended up walking and talking around the block.
She asked me my age and I told her to guess. She guessed 26 but I told her 23. I asked her and guessed 21-22. She happens to be 30. Few minutes later I asked for her number to see if I can get it and I ended up getting it. She said call me and I'll let you know how I did.
What is she looking for? I dont want to get in a relationship with a chick 7 years older than me. Would calling her and asking her to go out for some drinks be appropriate?
2006-12-02 10:01:17 · 25 answers · asked by SL1983 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds good to me. Invite her out for a drink then when you pick her up ask her what she likes to drink. Then proceed (coffee shop or bar)
2006-12-02 10:03:40 · answer #1 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, just go for drinks or for coffee if you want to spend more time with her. It's always nice to get to know people even if it turns out to be nothing more than friendship. But don't set up a date just to see if you can set up a date -- that would be just rude and wasting people's time. Be friendly, but after the drinks, don't say you'll call again unless you really want to pursue her. This woman might have a lot to offer other than a relationship. You may find out that she will make a huge impact in the business or academic world. It's usually worthwhile to get to know people better, and she sounds friendly.
2006-12-02 18:09:49 · answer #2 · answered by snowybostonchicken 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you call her and ask her out for drinks if you don't care to instigate a relationship? If you're not interested, don't call.
By the way, in this day and age, a 7 year difference is not considered "a lot" ! My mother was 12 years older than my dad, and my first husband was 11 years my senior. But none of this matters if you're not interested, obviously.......
2006-12-02 18:04:12 · answer #3 · answered by ladyw900ldriver 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What's wrong with a 7-year age difference? If you give her a chance you might really like her. Yeah, give her a call and ask her out for drinks. Carpe Diem!
2006-12-02 18:04:38 · answer #4 · answered by WonderWoman 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Handle it just the way you would with any other woman. Call her. See about getting together, and if it comes up be honest and make it clear to her what you are looking for.
2006-12-02 18:03:49 · answer #5 · answered by danl747 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if an older female gave you her number, she wants one of two things
she wants you for sex from Friday night until Monday morning,
or she wants you for sex when she wants you for sex..
so the way I see it
you HAVE to call her NOW ! !
and be prepared to work my boy, work..make us males proud...
bring the raincoats a lot of them.
and maybe even the little blue pills too...
but call her now before she moves onto some one who will give her what she wants....
sex from the top of her head to the bottom of her toes for hours and hours, boy utilize her ENTIRE body not just one or two parts her entire whole body, and she will keep calling YOU !
2006-12-02 18:10:50 · answer #6 · answered by dave s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you may not know what you're missing my freind.
when she's 50 and peeking sexually you'll still be kicking in your 40's
tell her your age at the end of your first date
she and her few years on you may be your best advantage
and she may be able to keep you on a good behavioral path
2006-12-02 18:05:26 · answer #7 · answered by goodlionvic 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you're not looking to get into a relationship, then just call her, go on a date, do her, and then dump her.
2006-12-02 18:05:29 · answer #8 · answered by lisa s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She wants sex. Call and ask her out for a few drinks sounds good. Go out for few drinks and then tap the @, like a frat keg, but don't drain it as quick as a frat keg.
2006-12-02 18:04:26 · answer #9 · answered by Nep 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
well you seems to like her, otherwise you wouldn´t be asking this, so you could give her a call and see what happens, why not? you only live once.
2006-12-02 18:03:49 · answer #10 · answered by Mexicana 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋