Ok so i liked this guy and we dated. So we keep braking up cause we neva talked. Well one time he actually cheated on me. Now we broke up for awhile then i took him back. Then i found out that he cheated on me again. So now we are broken up and i still like him, but i don't want to get hurt again. Have any of u ever gone through the same thing i did? Did u finally find someone better?
2006-12-02 09:59:23 · 10 answers · asked by Kat 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I was a dumb *** at one point in my life. I let some guy cheat on me 13 times and just let him do it because i didnt think i could do better. so for 2 years this went on. i finally decided that i was better then that. i dated off and one but know i have bin in a relasionship for the last 1 1/2 and its the best thing ever. going through something like that just makes you a stronger judge of charecter. you need to just let him go at first it hurts but it gose away. trust me
2006-12-02 10:04:14 · answer #1 · answered by B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, i have gone through exactly what you have, been there, done that, and burnt every picture of him i could find. You are at the stage where you really want to move on but you can't because they seem to have this stupid ability to pull you back in. The way I did it was completely removed him from my life. Well, as best i could anyway. I avoided him so I wouldn't see him. Deleted his number and any texts i got from him without even reading them. I tried to pretend that he didnt exist and blocked memories of us. My friends all helped too. I explained to them what i felt and how i didnt want contact and so they all took me out and helped me meet new people. I did end up not wanting to go out with people and have another boyfriend but I found that if you push yourself and want it bad enough, you can make anything happen. Now I'm in another relationship and happy. I can see him as well without wanting him back. I hope this helps you.
2006-12-02 18:09:42 · answer #2 · answered by lysipoodles 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is a weird thing the way we cling on to someone that treats us like crap, i have done the same and as much as you want to believe he relay wont do it again this time he will. if you end it,It will hurt for a while but you will look back and say thank god i got out , why chose to stay with someone who betray es you in one of the worse ways he could.there are so many good men out there (i hope), be with one of them.
2006-12-02 18:06:36 · answer #3 · answered by haa haa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok quick thing to look at.. you two don't talk much.. wont work. you might like him but if he is cheating on you. more then once. that shows that he isnt that interested in you. and as far as that you stil like him. find someone else.. there are alot of guys out there
2006-12-02 18:03:04 · answer #4 · answered by AdrianAP 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry dear, Stop that cycle and move on. I was in the same situation for 4 years. It will never work.
2006-12-02 18:02:27 · answer #5 · answered by ALS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really want my answer?
ok here is it!
WHY DO GIRLS ALWAYS TAKE BACK CHEATIN GUYS?
Did you not learn the first time he cheated on you? Once a cheater always a cheater!
2006-12-02 18:03:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i've never been through that and my advice to you is that you should move on and find a better person
2006-12-02 18:02:15 · answer #7 · answered by falawoods 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if u keep hanging around him u'll never find someone better. and yes u will find someone better.
2006-12-02 18:01:42 · answer #8 · answered by 2dogs 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
stop getting back together why do girls do that to themselves
2006-12-02 18:06:56 · answer #9 · answered by The Eternal Warrior? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no
2006-12-02 18:01:41 · answer #10 · answered by arthur3home 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋