I feel worthless because all my friend have had boyfriends before?

Question

I'm 14 and i feel discusting because all my friends have had boyfriends before or have had somebody ask them out and nobody has even asked me out before.
What can I do?

Answer 1

your only 14..wait until your older...im 19 and i have NEVER had a boyfriend...now how do you think i feel?

Answer 2

I know exactly how you feel, because I was exactly the same a year or so ago (when I was 14).
My only advice is to stop looking for guys, and concentrate on something else. I know you're at the age where guys are the most important thing and every conversation is simply boys boys boys, so it's hard, but if you occupy yourself with something you love, you'll feel far better than you do at the moment.
And as soon as you honestly stop looking, you will find someone (or they will find you). When I stopped obsessing over guys I found I got asked out several times the following year, it really works!
I know it seems hard now, but it will get better and you'll get what you want. (And if you'll anything like me, you'll decide boys aren't worth it after all).

Best of luck x.

Answer 3

well im kind of the same way but i've been asked before. my advice to you is to try to show confidence even if you not. people are so shallow they rarely notice. i can guarantee you that there's someone who'll notice you once you start "acting" like you luv yourself and that you are comfortable with what you have. Sometimes it just takes guys a while to realize that they're fooling around with rhinestones when they should be chasing us diamonds!

i hope this helps :)

Answer 4

don't worry about it, you are 14 , when did it become strange for a 14 year old to not have had a relationship. take your time to get involved with boys , you have a life time of it to deal with.