Asian guys reading this post should not take it as a joke. Getting a good job, education and income doesn't guarantee you a mate for future life. Here in this American society, it is a dog eat dog type of competition. I have been there and done that. I am not your average skinny bookworm type. I have trained in kungfu since an early age and am considered fairly attractive by Asian standards. Yet, I have no luck in the dating game. I am near 30 years old. I went after women way before you guys even finished your masters or doctors. The outlook out there is grim. Our women don't seem to like us because of racist portrayals and lack of positive ones for us Asian men. Many white and Latina women avoid us for the same reasons. The fact that so many Asian women marry out the race only makes those white and Latina women wonder or assume we are not attractive. This ain't no joke. I read on US Census studies. 1/4 Asian men in USA might be bachelors because of outmarriage.
2006-12-02 09:09:58 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
They're rone-ree oh so rone-ree.
2006-12-02 09:11:08 · answer #1 · answered by E B 5 · 1⤊ 8⤋
Can't imagine what is wrong with women these days I'd almost mail order an asian husband if I could ^_^ In my experience with white men; is they are the ones not generaly worth anything!..sorry guys I know not all of you are bad out there but try being a woman with my luck! I'd never heard anything about asian men being bad honestly till I wanted a question answered on whether Asian men found white women attractive at all.
I know it's a bit much to hope for seeing as how thin most Asian women are I couldn't belive the Japanese standard for 5'2" women 96lbs that's it! I thought that was called annarexia!? But I guess there is a better diet there than here.
Otherwise I guess the answere is you just arn't looking in the right places rural areas like where I live asian men are a minority and have no trouble at all getting a date if they'd just ask ^_^
2006-12-02 13:10:02 · answer #2 · answered by Marina-chan83 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'm gonna kinda comment on what you wrote. Getting a good job and make good money doesn't mean you're attractive in any culture, so it has nothing to do with you being Asian. You consider yourself "attractive by Asian standards" so why don't you find women who find you attractive? I really really wonder why you had no luck dating anybody. Do you try to give girls a call? Try to be nice to them to show you're a great guy? I don't think girls would go "get off of me you Asian." That's just blatantly racist and wrong. Most women are nice. If they aren't nice to you, find someone that is. The world is pretty big. And those facts you said about asian women marrying out of their race, I don't think they're true. If you consider yourself worth it, go and ACTIVELY seek for a soulmate. Don't just wither away because you heard all these stereotypes about Asian men.
2006-12-02 18:45:58 · answer #3 · answered by imtrustworthy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dont be a whiny idiot. I'm asian I just to get more hot dates than I knew what to do with - before I got married. Speak for youself, don't drag asians down cuz you had a bad month.
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if you desperate you should look outside the US.
2006-12-04 16:34:02 · answer #4 · answered by klixmaster 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You're crazy to think asian men are doomed, I know some asian guys who get good jobs in the US then they are in demand from the asian women back in there home countries. If you think white guys are the only ones traveling to asia then u are crazy.
2006-12-02 09:13:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Why are you whinning? If chinese woman can marry out of their race why can't you? Stop using a low chinese woman population as an excuse as to why you are not married go out there and find someone. Lots of people marry out of their race, my mom and dad are not the same race and they are married. You are not doomed it is not like you can only marry chinese people stop complining and find someone lots of smart decent people get married and the only reason you are'nt is because you make up these excuses, so you won't marry a chinese person there are lots of great people out there so go and find your soulmate and good LUCK!
2006-12-02 09:29:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
The world is massive ... plenty of space to find a wife
2006-12-02 09:13:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Um...I LOVE Asian guys...They're the only kind I DO like...
2006-12-05 17:23:46 · answer #8 · answered by luktsa55 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This is another whiteman propaganda speech. I've date plenty of latinas to give you whip-flash.
2006-12-03 00:57:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
their are so many people unmarried out their that people can akways get married including asains
2006-12-02 09:24:46 · answer #10 · answered by Joho 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There is someone for you out there, you just have to keep looking.
2006-12-02 09:12:04 · answer #11 · answered by hotwheels 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋