I love my bf very much but I feel jealous often, about things which I know I shouldnt. It makes me upset that I cant seem to control my emotions and always get angry about unimportant things. It is ruinging our relationship, and this is the person I want to spend my whole life with. Could counseling help? I have never gone before. Should I go alone, or with my boyfriend? Any advice would be appriciated!
2006-12-02 08:47:32 · 12 answers · asked by ophierose 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes it can help if you get a good counselor and you should go by your self the first time. and yes jealousy can ruin any kind of a relationship. Its very hard to deal with a person that is jealous. I admire you for trying to solve this problem now.
2006-12-02 08:52:15 · answer #1 · answered by roy40372 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, what is jealousy? This is where someone is giving away something or attentions to another person that really belongs to you. Envy is actually the very bad feeling worth counseling. What is he doing? He should not be tempting you to feel insecure. If he is DUMP THE MAN! He is trying to convince you he is right and you are wrong. Apparently, your common sense is telling you different. He is the one who needs counseling for not being able to honor a relationship he should be committed to in the first place. Now go and be the strong and smart girl you appear to be!
2006-12-02 08:53:51 · answer #2 · answered by PZ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it could help getting counseling from a professional. i'm assuming that the relationship along with your boyfriend in all fairness new as a results of fact your toddler is basically 6 months old. i'm able to understand why you sense insecure on account which you have been cheated on in the previous. bear in mind that your new boyfriend is a distinctive person than your ex husband. it could help gaining know-how of approximately chastity (purity) and marriage. human beings could be uncomplicated in a relationship and marriage. My dad and mom have been faithfully married for over 30 years. it quite is obtainable to proceed the relationship along with your boyfriend and end being jealous. sturdy success!
2016-10-17 15:08:02 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES, and if you feel you are jealous and cannot control your emotions, by all means do the counseling. I don't know about the boyfriend because it is not his issue but yours. But if the counselor suggest it, then allow him to participate.
2006-12-02 08:51:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Counseling can help you out and you don't need your boyfriend there and when u see a therapist you can learn why you are jealous and work on over coming your insecurities
HUGS
2006-12-02 08:49:35 · answer #5 · answered by AngelVirgo9206 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i fyour going to counseling and if your bf loves you he will volunteer to go with you. Most of the questions the counselor will ask are for both of you especially he will ask him how he feels about you been so jealous. SO ask him to go with you and go in with the counselor too. Hope it works out for both of you.
2006-12-02 08:53:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
counseling probly won't help ur jealousy cause that sum thing that u feel it can only be resolved by trusting ur bf not paying a counsler maoney to not fix it try trusting ur bf or sum thing like that.
2006-12-02 08:51:25 · answer #7 · answered by Kallee n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might help I'd go alone....you just need to remember that you're the one he wants because he's still with you and no other woman could ever compare to you.
2006-12-02 08:50:29 · answer #8 · answered by @ubreY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust and remember you are with him . not someone else . he chose to be with you because he wants to be . don't drive him away by trying to control him . except him i have many male friends and my x used to have many female friends . but they eather knew each other before we were together of worked with them . learn to beleive in your love for each other . if not it will distroy the love you share .
2006-12-02 08:53:39 · answer #9 · answered by single-rose@sbcglobal.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
counseling can help you with all kinds of problems.
2006-12-02 09:09:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋