my boyfriend dumped me on wednesday. he said he dumped me because he didnt want to get into another long relationship. we had only been dating for a month, he said he still really likes me and he is just confused about it. after we broke up he gav me this really expensive neclace that he was going to giv me wen we were still dating, i didnt want it, but he said he bought it for me and i was keeping it, so i kept it. i thot we were going to get bk together because he mentioned it. so we made out and had fun for a while be4 i had to go home. but then we didnt get back together. i cryed over him and even cryed to my mom. i've never cryed over a guy, i just really liked him. we talk at least everyday stil, and he is always confused if he should get back together with me or not. he keeps saying its not your fault, your beautiful your perfect. i guess im just hopeing he will want to get back together. do you think we will get back together or not?
2006-12-02 08:41:42 · 24 answers · asked by Tessa 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You were lucky enough to have a boy who is nice to you about the situation, but were unlucky enough to have a guy who realized that he could get sex for a present.
Don't wait around for him - he's being honest enough with you so that it's obvious that he's not going to be ready for a relationship anytime soon.
Sorry about your loss.
2006-12-02 08:46:07 · answer #1 · answered by hobbes84k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh Dear, why are you worried about something which has not happened at all. From your story, it is clear that he is interested in you but is not able to make a commitment. Give him some time. Don't force yourself on him.
I fully acknowledge your concern and can actually see tears coming out of that cute 'avtaar' which is next you your question. But I repeat, just don't worry. Nothing has happened. He has not said, "No".
I know evenings will be 'empty' without him and phone will be useless if he doesn't call you up. But still... relax. Be with your Mom. Help her in kitchen. Spend some more time with her. Don't be alone and don't keep your mind free. Keep it busy... solve a puzzle, play some games on your PC/Video, help others by solving their problems on "Yahoo Answers"... just keep yourself occupied.
I am not sure that your friend will come back immediately but he surely will. Trust yourself... Trust him... Trust me, I have a little more experience than you. Can you smile now :-)
2006-12-02 09:00:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it for what it's worth but as I see it and I am a man... He's just trying to make you feel better by saying it's not your fault... What he really means is that he wants to move on and be able to date others with no remorse....
This is a man's way of getting out of a relationship.... You need to move on before you get hurt even more.
The neckless ? well that's just what it is a meaningless neckless don't try to read between the lines as there are no lines to be reading between...
I wish you the best and you too shall find the man of your dreams when the time is right. Just keep your eyes open and your ears atune as he's out there for you....
Good luck, chin up and smile... don't let a day go by with out a smile as life is to short to fret over a boy or man.
2006-12-02 08:49:11 · answer #3 · answered by garzmaxx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is up to you! Yes, just show your sensible side. Tell him that you respect his decision and thank you for the lovely necklace. Just back off and leave him alone! Tell him to take the time and space he needs since he deserves happiness just the same as you do. If you give him this most precious gift...a guilt free release. He most likely will come back after he realizes he does have control over his own choices. DO NOT CRY. He will find you to be a secure space he can find love and acceptance with. JUST WAIT!
2006-12-02 08:48:05 · answer #4 · answered by PZ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend did that to me in our after our first couple months dating.We took a break for about 2 weeks, I quietly accepted that he was unsure,went out on a couple dates with someone else and slyly had a mutual friend tell him that I went out.My boyfriend must have realized he loved me because he called me the very next day and actually cried that he loved me and we've been together 3 years now.
2006-12-02 08:48:43 · answer #5 · answered by SarahF 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that most likely you will end up getting back together or at least im sure he will want to wether you do or not is a diffrent story...i have a b.f that said that to me we were on and off quite a bit and he always said to me that there is something wrong well the last time that we broke up he was like im just confused he couldnt really expalin what it was that he was confused about he just was and trust me its not your problem its his idk if its somehting that most men/boys go through but he will grow out of it... i think it took this guy about a month or two im not really sure but just give it some time and it will be fine ....
2006-12-02 08:47:29 · answer #6 · answered by shorty_rdb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might extremely have the liberty to do besides the fact that he needed this summer time than spend time with you. You the two sound youthful so it is not impressive. i don't think of you probably did something incorrect. he's basically not mature sufficient to be in a dating. he remains in that section the place basically his desires count. In time you will recover from him and flow directly to somebody plenty greater desirable.
2016-12-18 06:26:36 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you've done all you can on your side and you need to let him decide what he wants to do. You can't force him and if he comes back to you just to make you happy, is it really what you want? Take some time to focus on your life and what makes you happy. If he decides he's ready, he might come back. Don't stress yourself out over this. :)
2006-12-02 08:49:15 · answer #8 · answered by la_bitessa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl.... anyone who makes u cry... aint worthy of the tears that rolled down ...
i think he is was jerk... you gotta get back... have faith in somethig to put ur mind off him.....
as my music says
Tyre Tracks and broken hearts we are leaving behind it doesnt matter what we have lost only matters what we gonna find
2006-12-02 08:46:08 · answer #9 · answered by rocks_life 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO. He doesn't love you. He just wants you answer to get some action when he wants to. He is stringing you along. He is holding on to you for no reason. Break the connection and all communication to him. You are holding on to a dream and that is all that it is.
2006-12-02 08:46:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋