I have been looking for my father for 13 years. I just know came across him or should I say His wife. She says that she dose not know where he is and she will let him know that I am looking for him. I have a feeling that he is right there and no one is telling me.. I was a result of an affair my mother had with a married man. I Just do not know where to go from there. How do I find him if no one will let me talk to him? Where do I go from here? I just want to know my father that is all.
2006-12-02 08:13:49 · 10 answers · asked by tnskipp 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I am 25 years old and My father knows that i am a live ans I think he would want to see me but he lives thousands miles away. it is not like I can just walk up to the door.
2006-12-02 08:30:03 · update #1
go to their house and stalk them.untill he shows up.
2006-12-02 08:18:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
I'm so sorry your mother is a piece of crap.
if she has any love for you she should tell you who he is.
also Your father may not even know you were born...
It is Your right to know. Hope you find him, he has 13 years of child support to pay for...
Ask a lawyer if you have any grounds to force good old mom to tell you.
To bad you can't trade in your worthless mother. sorry
2006-12-02 16:20:46 · answer #2 · answered by bubbles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can find your birth certificate and see what your legal last name is. you can also go to peoplefinders.com and put in your father's name and birthday, if you have it, and the state he lives in. it will tell you some information. you may have to pay for a complete report. but first ask yourself, why doesn't anyone else want you to find him? you may be opening a large can of worms by seeking him out right now.
2006-12-02 16:17:37 · answer #3 · answered by tiafromtijuana 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Often, in such a situation, the father does not want to meet the child. In the rare occassion when he does want to meet his child, he will search for him or her.
If you know his address, city/state type his name into Zabasearch.com
Don't be disappointed if he rejects you and doesn't want to know or meet you. This is a sticky situation.
2006-12-02 16:20:53 · answer #4 · answered by newyorkgal71 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are not being fair to you..You have all rights to meet your real dad. If you are old enough, check on people search, you might need a credit card for this. Do on line research,see if there is an agency that can help you..
2006-12-02 16:19:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anannie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
calm down breath and relax ok this happened to me at least 5 times and im on for others who have this promblem.talk to ur mom or his girlfriend and say i really miss and how would u like not having a dad to sit on or giving him a fathers day present for 13 yrs.if it doesnt work start crying...everything will be ok i promise
2006-12-02 16:17:23 · answer #6 · answered by vgurl 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you know his name date of birth city and state go to zabasearch.com or for a fee goto peoplesearch.com this helps alot I have found my father and lost friend this way it works also be prepared if he dont want to speak to you It will hurt but sometimes this happens it happened to me Good Luck!
2006-12-02 16:33:41 · answer #7 · answered by EPTX 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first.ask your self if you will OK .if he tells you to f---off leave me alone,,,second..let his name be know to everybody,, go under your state department of corrections..see if he is an inmate....[how old are you ] how old will he be,look up finding people or free.com.good luck.
2006-12-02 16:30:14 · answer #8 · answered by tysgrandma99 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, um i think u are right about his wife knowing something. How else could she tell him anying. your best shot is her.
2006-12-02 16:20:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I may be able to help.
2006-12-02 16:16:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋