my close friend likes the same girl as i do. In fact the girl is my girlfriend. My mate disses me in front of her and tries to make me sound bad. He has been calling ma girl a lot recently and offering unwanted favours. My girl told me this and i know she doesnt like him but if he becomes better than me then i might lose her. PLEASE tell me what i can do to impress my girl and to get rid of my mate
2006-12-02 08:11:24 · 17 answers · asked by Mr Conglomery 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just ask him to stop in front of your girlfriend,now he has no way to lie about what he's been doing,then drop him like a hot rock.Unless he has the guts to apologize to you and her.But it's no reason to fight about it cause she is going to choose who she wants regardless.Showing some maturity will make you look good in her eyes and your own and in the eyes of others.
2006-12-02 08:21:57 · answer #1 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, if he is your "mate" he wouldn't compete with you and try to take your girlfriend. Secondly, she would turn down his offer of unwanted favors. Sounds like he's not a friend and if you don't trust your girl, you should be picking better people. Since you don't seem to know if you're girlfriend is going to change her loyalty or not have a talk with her and tell her the "mate" should be surgically removed from her life and yours for the sake of your relationship
2006-12-02 16:18:57 · answer #2 · answered by magpie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy is certainly not a mate. If he was he wouldn't be going after your girl. If you are being attentive and caring towards your girlfriend I wouldn't worry about her leaving you. If you don't give people a reason to look elsewhere for what they need they won't. As far as your "mate" goes you should cut him out of your life. Tell him you don't appreciate him hitting on your girlfriend and you can't be friends with someone that selfish. Don't answer his calls, ignore him if you see him out and about and ask your girlfriend to do the same.
2006-12-02 16:18:33 · answer #3 · answered by jjmlls 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok Tj, here's the thing: the guy is not your mate. He is the devil in sneakers. No real friend would do that to you and you have to trust your girl to know that. Lose the loser and she's bound to have less contact with him. She may just answer the phone thinking he's calling about you.
2006-12-02 16:15:05 · answer #4 · answered by swarr2001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your mate to pound sand and fine yourself a great girl who will not give you so many problems.
2006-12-02 16:14:11 · answer #5 · answered by tcbtoday123 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop trying to impress her, just be yourself and act caring. this way you will win her for sure. and you do not have to win her, she is already with you.
just tell this guy that this girl is going out with you and he'd better back off. if he doesn't just stop talking to him. he seems like a jerk and most girls do not like jerks so do not worry
2006-12-02 16:17:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guy's not a friend. You need to stop hanging out with him, and if your "girl" cares about you, she'll ditch him too.
Why does your "girl" take his phone calls ?
2006-12-02 16:15:19 · answer #7 · answered by DixieNormus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um, she's with you for a reason. This "he'll-be-better-than-I-am" stuff is bullsh--. Take a chill pill, and BTW, if your "friend" is calling you names and trying to make you sound bad - HE IS NOT A FRIEND.
2006-12-02 16:16:55 · answer #8 · answered by sakira_starwolf 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't tell your mate anything about your girlfriend. if you girlfriend just wants you, she will become scare to your mate and then its just you and she again.
2006-12-02 16:15:17 · answer #9 · answered by tiafromtijuana 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just kick him to the curb. What kind of friend is he if he's doing this kind of s**t to you. Better yet kick his ***,then to the curb
2006-12-02 16:18:24 · answer #10 · answered by Les Gramps 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋