ok so i was told to tell my best friend he is my crush if i do how do i tell him? nd if he says no then what?
2006-12-02 08:06:18 · 15 answers · asked by tinab 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you can stay friends, but expect sometime for him to become involved with another female and he won't consider it breaking your heart.
2006-12-02 08:08:09 · answer #1 · answered by tiafromtijuana 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, you pick a hard question for all of us on a Saturday afternoon! I know how hard that is for you. If he really is your best friend, start with, "I value your friendship so much but there is something I have to tell you..." then get on with it. If he says no, it doesn't mean it won't crush you, but hopefully you will have an honest answer from an honest man. Good luck. By the way, who told you to tell him?
2006-12-02 08:10:54 · answer #2 · answered by swarr2001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could print up a clever note, put it in an envelope, hand it to him. By telling him this way, you don't put him on the spot to come up with an instant answer. If he says "no" then you move on because someone out there will say "yes".
2006-12-02 08:09:56 · answer #3 · answered by tcbtoday123 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well simply ask if he has any feelings for anybody and if he starts to ask why well simply say, that started to have feelings for him and if he feels the same way then i guess you all will work things out and be very happy. keep in mind, that there should never be a day where you all don't speak of how you feel about things. always be open to listening to your partner and you will last long.
2006-12-02 08:11:45 · answer #4 · answered by TiGgEr_LoVeR 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just run up to him and say hey I Think that we should try dating give him few days to see what he wants guys need time. I know its hard but if says no just say k and flip the hair and walk away. I think that's the best thing to do. and if he says yes you go girl!
2006-12-02 08:13:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Act casual. If he says he's not interested, then you know you should wait until some hot guy spots YOU for a change!
2006-12-02 08:11:06 · answer #6 · answered by domesticgoddess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This happened to me too. Just tell him. I GUARENTEE he feels the exact same. We are still happily dating after 11 months.
2006-12-02 08:08:27 · answer #7 · answered by ~Happy~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont ever tell a guy you have a crush on him, just tell him, you think he is kind of cute.
2006-12-02 08:12:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just take a chance and still be friends no matter what if you can handle it
2006-12-02 08:09:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say "Hey (then whatever his name is) I really like you I want to maybe do sometihng sometime, but if you don't want to, I'm okay with that."
2006-12-02 08:09:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋