a guy that i relly like asked me out da other day and he was quite full on with me and made all the moves and now he's dumped me and says we are better off as mates how can he really like me one minute and not the next (this all happened in less than a week )
a few months before all of this he asked me out but i said no because i had just ended with someone else. Then a few weeks ago i asked him out but he said know! Then when he asked me out a few days ago i asked him why he had said no to me before and he said it was because it was between me and another girl!
When he dumped me he said it was because he doesn't see me enough but he does really like me! and then a few hours later he just texted dumped to me! i'm really confused!
2006-12-02 08:05:39 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
u 2 need to stop playing games with each other. just find someone else this won't work out
2006-12-02 08:07:41 · answer #1 · answered by DA-LL /Male/ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I read your message and could tell right away what this guy is doing to you,he is just playing with your feelings and sentiments, he really does not care about you. Never believe a guy, a word he says, because they are just words he knows girls want to hear. Move on with your life there are plenty of fish in the sea, as the saying goes, and I believe that you will someday meet a guy that likes you for what you are, not for what he says. I wish you a lot of luck.
2006-12-02 08:22:15 · answer #2 · answered by a.vasquez7413@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel.I was in the same situation.Kinda.Me and this guy went out for a whole month.One minute were fine and the next people were telling me he was going to brake up with me.He cheated on me.I was soooo mad.But I forgave him.Not that long after he broke up with me.I was sooooo confused.He was not even man enough to tell me he was braking up with me.Now he is dating my best friend.I felt sooooooo betrayed when I found out.Don't play games with him.Tell him you like him alot but you are not going to play around.Either you are together or not.Tell him you are not going to let him mess with your feelings and use you like you belong to him.You belong to yourself and no one else.If he is acting the way he is toward you then you are better off with out him.Good luck.
2006-12-02 08:32:53 · answer #3 · answered by jess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He actually didn't "dump" you, since there was NO relationship to begin with. Asking you out and having ONE date with him and him being "full out" doesn't equal a relationship. He just changed his mind about wanting to be in a relationship with you. Obviously you need to grow up a bit more and learn the difference between just dating and relationships.
2006-12-02 08:18:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, let me tell you anyone who text dumps you isnt worth the time of asking a question like this. You sound like someone who is worth so much more than what this coward has to offer you. He obviously cant handle confrontation and is not worth your time. Good luck to you.
2006-12-02 08:21:07 · answer #5 · answered by Shana H 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He doesnt know what he wants. And it sounds you both are lacking maturity. So dont worry about such things just yet. It's no big deal at the moment. It'll all make more sense in a cupla years. ;)
2006-12-02 08:10:10 · answer #6 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like its all a power thing......push you away pull you back and so it goes on and on until you finally say enough. It is about his ego.......nothing to do with how you really fit into his life.l
2006-12-02 08:24:28 · answer #7 · answered by eagledreams 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am guessing the other girl is willing to 'put out' so he's gone to get his jollys. Forget him he is a user he is trying you both out to see who is easier. wait for someone who is going to have some respect for you.
2006-12-02 08:09:38 · answer #8 · answered by Smoochy Poochy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes acting like a jerk so now youre not confused....dont even talk to him if he calls YOU HANG UP ON HIM!!
2006-12-02 08:08:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like some kind of nut.I would drop the clown if it was me.
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2006-12-02 08:13:21 · answer #10 · answered by Step 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋