i in love with two boyz. they dont know about each other. one is in school and one is outside of school. what should i do? i luv them both and i hear this song called promsie my ciara and i think of both of them when i hear it.
2006-12-02 07:59:54 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just compare both of them!! sit down and write all the things that each of them have and then compare them!!!it works every time!!
2006-12-02 08:01:47 · answer #1 · answered by gymdogs101 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your own statement proves that you do not love them both. You think that 'feeling' a certain way means that you 'love.' This simply is not so. Love is not a feeling, it is a commitment to the good of the other (and that does NOT include secretly seeing or even fantasizing about another) and your immaturity is proof that you are nowhere near being ready to commit.
Go back to the schoolwork and get a good foundation in your mind for real life. It is nice to feel positively toward more than one individual but what you are doing is messing with your mind because you're reading waaaaaaay too much into things here.
2006-12-02 08:04:07 · answer #2 · answered by Samslou 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU SURELY GOT YOURSELF INTO A DIFFICULT SITUATION; BUT IT CAN ALSO HURT THE BOTH OF THEM TRMENDOUSLY!EVENTUALLY YOU WILL HAVE TO CHOICE BECAUSE YOU CAN NOT SEREVE TOW MASTERS AT ONE TIME.IF YOU DO CHOICE IT DOES NOT MEAN THAT YOU STOP LOVING ONE BUT IS LESSED INVOLVED BECAUSE YOU WILL HAVE A LEVEL BASED AN FRIENDSHIP SOELY AND NOT ON INTIMACY!
I KNOW YOU LOVE TOO OF THEM BUT THERE IS ALWAYS ONE YOU WILL LOVE MORE
SO FOLLOW YOUR HEART AND ALSO DON'T BE BLINDED BY LOVE BECAUSE YOU MAY LOVE ONE MORE BUT YOU MAY NOT BE RECIEVING THE LOVE YOU WANT BACK IN THE RELATIONSHIP SUCH AS COMFORT.
BE CAREFUL WITH WHO U CHOICE FIND OUT WHOM YOU LOVE MORE
WHO WANTS TO BE AROUND YOU MORE
WHO SHARES MORE OF YOUR VALUES AND PRINCIPLES AND WILL COMFORT ,APPRECIATE AND RESPECT YOU MORE!
ALSO WHO THINKS ABOUT YOU MORE AND WHOM DO U THINK ABOUT MORE!
I TRULY HOPE THIS HELP,BEST OF LUCK AND GOD BLESS!
2006-12-02 08:09:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lyrics from and old song. I can't remeber who sang it. Goes something like this. "And there's a girl right next to you, and she's just waiting for something to do. And if you can't be with the one you love. Then love the one you're with."
2006-12-02 08:05:51 · answer #4 · answered by godeep 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Promsie? Never heard that one...oh well, just do what you need to do...
2006-12-02 08:01:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you shouldn't be playing with their feelings because then in the end the one who will really suffer is you. so think about what you are doing and ask your self who is a better candidate for you.
2006-12-02 08:02:24 · answer #6 · answered by TiGgEr_LoVeR 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
choose the one you are most compatible with and makes you the happiest.
having two guys will eventually end .. they will find out
you are going with both.
why lose both when you can choose one ...
2006-12-02 08:06:15 · answer #7 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what wrong with gettn bitten a few times....try to find out which one is in to u more and for for it....
put it on black and white what u like and what u dislike about both and then decide
2006-12-02 08:02:49 · answer #8 · answered by aflyladybug4u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there has to be one love stronger than the other...is either one calling you or is it only in your head?? if your favorite one calls then ask your parents for permission..
2006-12-02 08:03:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop playing and make up your mind.
2006-12-02 08:01:48 · answer #10 · answered by Step 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋