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I met a girl. she is shy and we exchanged numbers. So i msged her and asked her out (not the best way I know). She replied back she's busy for this weekend. Should I move on?

Please advise.

2006-12-02 07:35:57 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

13 answers

Wait a while. Ask one more time. On the phone. If she says she's busy again, say, "Cancel your plans. I'm more fun." If she still says no, move on.

2006-12-02 07:38:52 · answer #1 · answered by hallowlulu 2 · 1 0

She may actually be busy. Next time ask her if she would like to go out some time, rather than a particular day, and see what she says.

2006-12-02 15:39:55 · answer #2 · answered by kate d 4 · 0 0

If you have her phone number, call just to chat. If things go nicely, then ask her out. Msg'ing isn't the way to go. She may be a little put off by that. Either go about it more personally, or move on.

2006-12-02 15:39:16 · answer #3 · answered by Kodoku Josei 4 · 0 0

Do not move on. It would be cowardly of you to stop now, and altough I am not that experienced either, I want to help people who are in this kind of situation. I also find myself in a similar dilema. Try to see things from her point of view, say what you would want to hear if you were her. Don't be pushy, but let her know you are there. And, be yourself!

2006-12-02 15:41:11 · answer #4 · answered by death d 1 · 0 0

Have you considered she is busy for real...? Don't give up so easily. When did you ask her out? Give her more notice and for God's sake don't message her. At least talk to her on the phone. Call her at least three days in advance and ask her out again.

2006-12-02 15:38:34 · answer #5 · answered by suzycrmchz 3 · 1 0

probably, there's many reasons for her to have had said that. but you don't wanna look like a desperate stalker, you'll find some1 else, trust me. this one guy at my school was flirting with me, then one day he said, "if you like me why don't you just ask me out" i said "cuz you might say no" and he said "i don't think i would" well long story short he kept me waiting for a week then asked out my friend. and AFTER asking her out he said that his answer to me was no cuz he wanted to be friends....maybe the girl you like is looking for friendship before commitment.

best of luck to you
~slacker

ps. the ending to my story...i found some1 else ^-^

2006-12-02 15:42:13 · answer #6 · answered by santaz_lil_slacker 2 · 0 0

Not yet. CALL her up in a few days and ask her out again. If she turns you down once again - then move on.

2006-12-02 15:38:09 · answer #7 · answered by hana_banana36 1 · 0 0

move on buddy
there are plenty of women out side who are single
in the mean while wait for her reply, if she did go out with her, if she did not ignore her.
dont stick with single girl.

2006-12-02 15:50:16 · answer #8 · answered by Kewl guy 3 · 0 0

asked her over a text? thats not good. you should call and tlak to her. and maybe she is just busy. don't read into it. try talking to her and if she's busy for the month then move on lol.

2006-12-02 15:37:43 · answer #9 · answered by DA-LL /Male/ 3 · 0 0

look im a girl and if i said that that probably means she doesnt want to go out with u and u should move on

2006-12-02 15:39:59 · answer #10 · answered by roxy101 2 · 0 0

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